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desert-rose liked post by Shaggy On thread : need advice about wife and a male friendYou need to have a plan in place on what she and you will do when this guy comes around again. He will come fishing for more contact. Don't fall prey to feeling sorry for him, or for the idea...Liked On: 03-18-2012, 03:08 PM
Posted On: 03-17-2012, 09:32 AM desert-rose liked post by Thor On thread : Question for Indian/Asian/traditional womenOK I just read your other post about your wife not consummating your marriage. You are not married. You do not have a "marriage" or any normal romantic relationship with her. She is a broken...Liked On: 03-18-2012, 03:03 PM
Posted On: 03-18-2012, 10:02 AM desert-rose liked post by River1977 On thread : Verbal Abuse Ends MarriageGeez, Hunter, I sure am glad for your sake that you are not like this guy. We are all blame-shifting females who are in denial and lying on our poor innocent husbands. I don't know if you noticed...Liked On: 03-17-2012, 09:40 PM
Posted On: 03-14-2012, 10:55 PM desert-rose liked post by itgetsbetter On thread : Verbal Abuse Ends MarriageSix of one, half a dozen of another. He emotionally abused her from what he described...he did so verbally. Emotional abuse? Verbal abuse? Doesn't matter. He clearly agrees he was abusive. I...Liked On: 03-17-2012, 09:40 PM
Posted On: 03-14-2012, 04:41 PM desert-rose liked post by sinnister On thread : Verbal Abuse Ends MarriageWhat you describe is not verbal abuse. Irrational expectations and constant criticism is being a jerk..but something an adult brings up from time to time. If you had no idea you were doing it I'm...Liked On: 03-17-2012, 09:38 PM
Posted On: 03-14-2012, 10:09 AM desert-rose liked post by LovesHerMan On thread : Verbal Abuse Ends MarriageYou are in a tough spot because your wife is no longer willing to be vulnerable to you because you have hurt her so much. I would write her a letter telling her what you have learned about...Liked On: 03-17-2012, 09:38 PM
Posted On: 03-13-2012, 03:35 PM desert-rose liked post by Mavash. On thread : Conditional MarriageLet me get this straight. This guy kept breaking up with you because of supposed fighting and yet you married him anyway without resolving this in anyway shape form or fashion. And now you are...Liked On: 03-17-2012, 07:42 PM
Posted On: 03-17-2012, 03:47 PM desert-rose liked post by EleGirl On thread : Question for Indian/Asian/traditional womenThere are two ways that you can handle this address issue. One is to try to get her to see what you believe is the right way. The other is to respect her decision. Trying to get her to accept what...Liked On: 03-17-2012, 07:39 PM
Posted On: 03-17-2012, 04:33 PM desert-rose liked post by bandit.45 On thread : My HUsbands Female FriendI don't see this situation as being so much about the fear of adultery (although it could be heading that direction). The issue I see here is with respect. You have voiced your feelings and...Liked On: 03-17-2012, 03:17 PM
Posted On: 03-17-2012, 12:43 PM desert-rose liked post by Bobby5000 On thread : Question for Indian/Asian/traditional womenObviously one problem you have with American is that equality is our benchmark. I remember having an Indian secretary and was amazed at how much she was expected to do for her husband's family. ...Liked On: 03-16-2012, 11:51 PM
Posted On: 03-16-2012, 10:14 PM desert-rose liked post by SoWhat On thread : The emotional veto.@desert_rose: Thanks. I am taking your advice seriously. It follows some things I've thought but haven't internally articulated as well as you do. I didn't mean for this thread to be about me in...Liked On: 03-16-2012, 11:40 PM
Posted On: 03-16-2012, 11:36 PM desert-rose liked post by River1977 On thread : The emotional veto.I am not going to be duped into agreeing with you to confirm your ego. No woman would respond to such a request in the manner you described unless you gave her reason. And here you say two women...Liked On: 03-16-2012, 11:40 PM
Posted On: 03-16-2012, 11:39 PM desert-rose liked post by Beowulf On thread : Learned something new in counseling todayMy wife Morrigan had breast enlargement surgery done a while ago. When she gets out of work I'll try to get her to come on and share her experiences and advice. And for the record, I loved her how...Liked On: 03-16-2012, 09:23 PM
Posted On: 03-16-2012, 08:27 AM desert-rose liked post by that_girl On thread : Learned something new in counseling todayBecause that's NOT why he cheated. that's not why he 'got bored' with her. It's an excuse. Something, I believe, he made up to make her feel even worse about herself to keep her with him. Low...Liked On: 03-16-2012, 09:21 PM
Posted On: 03-15-2012, 05:44 PM desert-rose liked post by 2nd_t!me iz_best On thread : Learned something new in counseling todaythats right, just as he himself said. just like a kid with a new toy, play with it for a minute then throw it in the corner and go find something else to play with.Liked On: 03-16-2012, 09:20 PM
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