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FormerNiceGuy FormerNiceGuy is offline

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Last Activity: 06-07-2013 02:15 PM

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  • About FormerNiceGuy
    I am a:
    Male
    Relationship Status
    Marriage
    Length of time in current relationship:
    16-20 yrs.
    Sexual Orientation
    Heterosexual
    Biography
    Born, Grew Up, Been in Therapy every since
    Location
    East of the Mississippi

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  • Last Activity: 06-07-2013 02:15 PM
  • Join Date: 02-13-2012

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  1. FormerNiceGuy
    FormerNiceGuy liked post by Lon On thread : Tossed Salad
    Glad you figured this out ;) (now I'm jealous of you though)
    Liked On: 07-31-2012, 05:11 PM
    Posted On: 07-31-2012, 03:47 PM
  2. FormerNiceGuy
    FormerNiceGuy liked post by thunderstruck On thread : Getting the duty stuff
    bandit - you swing a solid 2x4. Thanks. Keep bringing it. You may be right with some/all of this. I don’t think she “likes” being depressed/angry. She’s had two depressed family members commit...
    Liked On: 06-18-2012, 09:33 AM
    Posted On: 06-18-2012, 09:26 AM
  3. FormerNiceGuy
    FormerNiceGuy liked post by thunderstruck On thread : No More Mr. Nice Guy: The Support Thread
    Not quite. It's more, "I'm doing this for me. You can join me on my journey, or you can choose to move on." Nothing wrong with that.
    Liked On: 06-15-2012, 09:23 AM
    Posted On: 06-14-2012, 10:35 AM
  4. FormerNiceGuy
    FormerNiceGuy liked post by Hicks On thread : Whats Your Take on this....??
    You are making a huge mistake defining her as asexual. You will find out one day that she is sexual. Either it will be with you or another man. Mark my words. The productive way to look at...
    Liked On: 06-14-2012, 08:58 AM
    Posted On: 06-14-2012, 08:50 AM
  5. FormerNiceGuy
    FormerNiceGuy liked post by Gaia On thread : When the OW is Ms right. Guys Help
    Heard this throughout my life, father was a cheater too, and... frankly got sick of the generalizations I've heard from both sides so i started thinking along these lines... "Men and women may...
    Liked On: 05-19-2012, 08:07 AM
    Posted On: 05-18-2012, 05:45 PM
  6. FormerNiceGuy
    FormerNiceGuy liked post by bronwen On thread : Well that went really well!
    I have been doing my best at the 180 since about a week ago. I seem to learn a bit more about changing my behaviour every day and it does seem to eb having an effect. He has not been very...
    Liked On: 05-12-2012, 11:27 AM
    Posted On: 05-12-2012, 11:20 AM
  7. FormerNiceGuy
    FormerNiceGuy liked post by canttrustu On thread : Fingers and Toes Crossed!!!
    Wow. You do cut to the chase. Your question "how much do I trust myself"- answer: Actually, I do trust myself. I did survive. I would again. I dont want to but no one ever WANTS to, right? The only...
    Liked On: 05-11-2012, 02:22 PM
    Posted On: 05-11-2012, 01:36 PM
  8. FormerNiceGuy
    FormerNiceGuy liked post by okeydokie On thread : HUMOUR--- That's what is needed here
    a husband wakes up early to go fishing, sneaks out of bed and heads out to hook up the boat. he finds the weather is horrible, cold, windy and raining sideways so he thinks, screw this, i'll head...
    Liked On: 05-10-2012, 09:24 AM
    Posted On: 05-10-2012, 09:19 AM
  9. FormerNiceGuy
    FormerNiceGuy liked post by Tigerman On thread : Tearing down walls
    Bingo! Good observation and a useful reminder. Based on what I've learned about myself as I've gone through all this, I can definitely see control issues playing a major role in lots of things I've...
    Liked On: 05-10-2012, 06:17 AM
    Posted On: 05-09-2012, 05:50 PM
  10. FormerNiceGuy
    FormerNiceGuy liked post by Racer On thread : Nice - With Expectations? Ticket to Emotional Hell
    How I got out of it is different than how I recovered from it. NMMNG is a good program and what I did. That is how I recovered initially. It may be enough for most... for me; It was uglier. ...
    Liked On: 05-07-2012, 05:00 PM
    Posted On: 05-07-2012, 04:49 PM
  11. FormerNiceGuy
    FormerNiceGuy liked post by Entropy3000 On thread : Wife tells me that I do not do enough...
    I am a bit more methodical. I often assess a situation but I usally then go about the due diligence of verifying thoughts. So while I too feel it seems this way, I am suggesting he do some...
    Liked On: 05-03-2012, 05:33 PM
    Posted On: 05-03-2012, 05:22 PM
  12. FormerNiceGuy
    FormerNiceGuy liked post by donny64 On thread : To have sex or not?
    :lol: I see what you did there.....
    Liked On: 05-02-2012, 08:12 PM
    Posted On: 05-02-2012, 10:50 AM
  13. FormerNiceGuy
    FormerNiceGuy liked post by Bluemoon1 On thread : losing hope
    All men have a few options in low sex marriages 1. Put up with it, and live the rest of their lives with the constant hurt of rejection and broken trust, and live with the resentment, until their...
    Liked On: 05-02-2012, 08:08 PM
    Posted On: 05-02-2012, 02:42 PM
  14. FormerNiceGuy
    FormerNiceGuy liked post by donny64 On thread : losing hope
    She's not putting forward any effort for two reasons....One, she doesn't HAVE to. You leaving her over this is not now a fear of hers. Two, she has lost attraction for you. My wife is an...
    Liked On: 05-02-2012, 08:43 AM
    Posted On: 05-02-2012, 12:20 AM
  15. FormerNiceGuy
    FormerNiceGuy liked post by Bluemoon1 On thread : losing hope
    I hate to tell you this, but never ever, ever, and I mean ever ask a woman for advice in these situations, because what you will get is advice that is bound not to work, like "have a talk about it"...
    Liked On: 05-01-2012, 05:21 PM
    Posted On: 05-01-2012, 04:05 PM
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