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  • Join Date: 04-04-2012

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    iheartlife liked post by Hope1964 On thread : Advice needed
    No, you can't force him to stop, but you can give him a very clear choice. It's either complete NO CONTACT with this woman, TOTAL transparency, TRUE remorse, and IC for him, or you are DONE. ...
    Liked On: 07-31-2012, 10:19 PM
    Posted On: 07-31-2012, 02:18 PM
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    iheartlife liked post by wrsteele1 On thread : I kinda had an affair/ inappropriate convo. Need Help!
    My wife probably could have written something like this first post, too. That would have been about 6 months before our eventual divorce began. Slippery slope/boundaries. If you don't go no...
    Liked On: 07-31-2012, 09:47 PM
    Posted On: 07-31-2012, 11:23 AM
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    iheartlife liked post by happyman64 On thread : Trapped in a bad marriage, help!
    My heart goes out to you WR. I know you did not want this but you really have no choice. I hope you can begin your healing soon. I had a buddy go through a very similar situation. He...
    Liked On: 07-31-2012, 05:34 PM
    Posted On: 07-31-2012, 05:05 PM
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    iheartlife liked post by chapparal On thread : Trapped in a bad marriage, help!
    Hopefully, down the line, you will end up like most of us here. You will find someone better, be happier than before and wonder how you got so lucky. Don't settle.
    Liked On: 07-31-2012, 05:33 PM
    Posted On: 07-31-2012, 05:25 PM
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    iheartlife liked post by Darrien On thread : Admitting to yourself it's over
    When the person you love, gave your heart to, lived a life with, had children with, had dreams for the future with, moves their focus onto someone else, be it EA or PA... It's OVER. Period. No...
    Liked On: 07-31-2012, 05:29 PM
    Posted On: 07-17-2012, 01:23 PM
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    iheartlife liked post by Darrien On thread : Married 30 years
    I don't think these kind of tactics work really. It's like trying to collect frogs in a bucket. If they have the motivation, they will find a way IMO. If there was something that could remove...
    Liked On: 07-31-2012, 05:28 PM
    Posted On: 07-05-2012, 02:41 PM
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    iheartlife liked post by the guy On thread : Trapped in a bad marriage, help!
    Its not about your family and your wife, its about the kids and the emotional torture your wife is bringing you. Don't assume family will not help you, this is not some social event that curdicy...
    Liked On: 07-31-2012, 08:00 AM
    Posted On: 07-30-2012, 06:09 PM
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    iheartlife liked post by GoingThru On thread : How to go through wife's EA hell
    update: i confronted my WW with all the email evidence and told her to leave our house immediately. she easily complied. she wanted out anyway because she re-applied for an overseas job offer. she...
    Liked On: 07-30-2012, 08:11 AM
    Posted On: 07-30-2012, 08:04 AM
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    iheartlife liked post by lordmayhem On thread : Wife of 25 years in affair with other woman
    :iagree: Yet another POS MC doing more damage for a marriage. Its like they get their degrees/licenses out of a cereal box or something.
    Liked On: 07-30-2012, 07:23 AM
    Posted On: 07-30-2012, 12:10 AM
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    iheartlife liked post by KanDo On thread : Wife of 25 years in affair with other woman
    I am so sorry that you are here. I think your situation is more dire than you suspect given your wife's previous actions/words. If you do nothing else: 1) Fire your MC He/She doesn't know the...
    Liked On: 07-29-2012, 03:36 PM
    Posted On: 07-29-2012, 12:03 AM
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    iheartlife liked post by Caribbean Man On thread : Wife's Online Affair
    ^^^^^^^^ This part of the entire story has me angry. WTF? :mad: This woman was having heavy cybersex with another man online,and she is so deranged and SELFISH , the she REFUSES to even fulfill...
    Liked On: 07-29-2012, 03:36 PM
    Posted On: 07-29-2012, 03:29 PM
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    iheartlife liked post by lordmayhem On thread : So what have you spent on MC?
    Insurance doesn't cover it. So nope.
    Liked On: 07-29-2012, 03:15 PM
    Posted On: 07-28-2012, 10:44 PM
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    iheartlife liked post by lordmayhem On thread : BS Fog
    Another component of the BS fog besides denial, is fear. Fear that the marriage is over, fear that any action they take will drive the WS to their AP.
    Liked On: 07-28-2012, 02:51 PM
    Posted On: 07-28-2012, 02:11 PM
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    iheartlife liked post by lordmayhem On thread : BS Fog
    The vast majority of us have been in the fog of denial, myself included. That's why we have the urge to prevent people from making the same mistakes.
    Liked On: 07-28-2012, 02:51 PM
    Posted On: 07-28-2012, 02:09 PM
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    iheartlife liked post by Alyosha On thread : Mental, personality disorders and infidelity.
    The lack of empathy was the most alarming thing I saw in my ex wife during the affair. I would ask her to see the situation from my perspective --"what if I did x to you, how would you feel?" --...
    Liked On: 07-28-2012, 12:22 PM
    Posted On: 07-27-2012, 02:13 PM
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