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- LongWalk liked post by iheartlife On thread : Being the betrayerExactly. I think it can even go deeper, which is to say that if they hate themselves enough, on some level they actively disrespect their spouse for loving them. They don't deserve love, can't...Liked On: 05-11-2013, 07:50 PM
Posted On: 10-01-2012, 05:36 PMrussell28 liked post by iheartlife On thread : Reconciliation...And therein lies the irony, right? Reconciliation with blinders on seems like the safest thing to do, easier than divorce. Reconciliation with full knowledge and understanding of how infidelity...Liked On: 05-08-2013, 02:06 PM
Posted On: 08-07-2012, 09:41 AMrussell28 liked post by iheartlife On thread : Reconciliation...I think here's the core hypothesis for Chumplady (feel free to correct me CL if I'm wrong): --nearly all cheaters are serial cheaters at heart--just because they've cheated once doesn't mean they...Liked On: 05-08-2013, 01:59 PM
Posted On: 08-07-2012, 08:03 AMLanieB liked post by iheartlife On thread : My husband moved out with his GF but came back only when I started seeing someoneHave either of you done any hard examination of your marriage? Has your husband attended individual counseling to sort himself out? If not, then you stand an excellent chance of repeating history....Liked On: 04-25-2013, 10:55 AM
Posted On: 04-27-2012, 09:31 AMtotallyunexpected liked post by iheartlife On thread : What to do?That's because it's the TRUTH and you are an HONEST person who speaks from the heart. He was never capable of that. Pity him for being such a self-centered, shallow person, because he will never know...Liked On: 04-15-2013, 12:44 PM
Posted On: 07-05-2012, 10:18 AMtotallyunexpected liked post by iheartlife On thread : What to do?Kristy, you are not alone. There are many people on here who have been lied to for their entire marriage. Sham1024 comes to mind, her husband has frequented prostitutes the entire time they've been...Liked On: 04-15-2013, 12:43 PM
Posted On: 07-05-2012, 09:47 AMtotallyunexpected liked post by iheartlife On thread : Hi, im not sure if Im way off........I agree it's suspicious. If it was innocent, the next time you said something, he would have handed you the phone and say, look through our texts, you can see for yourself what we're talking...Liked On: 04-14-2013, 06:36 PM
Posted On: 05-04-2012, 03:01 PMtotallyunexpected liked post by iheartlife On thread : Reconciliation...I've enjoyed reading your blog entries. And while I agree that many cheaters are narcissists, or have BPD or an abuse background, or don't love themselves deep down and act in self-destructive...Liked On: 04-03-2013, 09:36 PM
Posted On: 08-06-2012, 08:33 PMphillybeffandswiss liked post by iheartlife On thread : Husband EA with co worker, what to do?Thank you for the update. I'm glad to hear he's starting IC. I am sorry to put it this way...but explain to us what happens when the pendulum swings the other way and she shows him attention...Liked On: 03-26-2013, 12:00 PM
Posted On: 12-03-2012, 01:44 PMtotallyunexpected liked post by iheartlife On thread : 6 weeks after finding out really struggling(long)You have tried to leave, and the main thing stopping you was she let the air out of your tires. You don't understand why the counselor is working overtime to try and resurrect the marriage. As...Liked On: 03-06-2013, 09:04 PM
Posted On: 07-03-2012, 05:34 PMphillybeffandswiss liked post by iheartlife On thread : Initial foray??? You are rarely in a telling mood, anyhow. Or is Sophia doing the typing? Posted via Mobile DeviceLiked On: 03-03-2013, 05:26 AM
Posted On: 07-17-2012, 06:18 PMAnandForPals liked post by iheartlife On thread : Handling a wife's emotional affair or maybe the EA of my wife's friend toward my wifeHe says she is being deceptive about the communications. I agree he treats her like an infant--that is painfully clear (see my post on the previous page). But there is zero call for...Liked On: 02-28-2013, 01:27 AM
Posted On: 05-16-2012, 01:43 PMphillybeffandswiss liked post by iheartlife On thread : Concerns... if you think so, it's probably so...frantark, I just want to commend you for calmly and cooly collecting evidence. You would be surprised how many people wring their hands over "snooping," i.e., verifying that a likely liar is, in...Liked On: 02-24-2013, 07:52 PM
Posted On: 12-14-2012, 08:21 AMngonza liked post by iheartlife On thread : Essay on cnn.com re John Edwards: 'Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?'John Edwards: Once a cheater, always a cheater? - CNN.com (http://www.cnn.com/2012/05/31/living/edwards-and-cheating/index.html?hpt=hp_t1)Liked On: 02-08-2013, 01:44 PM
Posted On: 05-31-2012, 08:34 PMtom67 liked post by iheartlife On thread : Wife's EA: Is she really in denial, or just lyingI agree entirely. Her AP is in Germany, and the likelihood of her leaving you for him is virtually nil. Maybe when she starts to understand the level of pain she's caused, through the voices of...Liked On: 02-01-2013, 01:59 PM
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