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- Sara8 liked post by Jellybeans On thread : I didn't do it! Thanks to you guysHey, if we can save at least ONE person and couple, then we have done our job well. :) Mia, good job. Now end all contact with this dude. Block his #, FB, everything. If your marriage is...Liked On: 10-11-2012, 08:57 AM
Posted On: 10-11-2012, 08:43 AMScarletBegonias liked post by Jellybeans On thread : I am OW, wife keeps trying to call me..Look, I'm pretty sure it's the wife calling her if Regretful was friends with her and knows her #. Let's offer some constructive advice here. Regretful, you are going to catch a lot of sh!t in...Liked On: 10-11-2012, 08:54 AM
Posted On: 10-11-2012, 08:50 AMLiam liked post by Jellybeans On thread : I didn't do it! Thanks to you guysHey, if we can save at least ONE person and couple, then we have done our job well. :) Mia, good job. Now end all contact with this dude. Block his #, FB, everything. If your marriage is...Liked On: 10-11-2012, 08:48 AM
Posted On: 10-11-2012, 08:43 AMScarletBegonias liked post by Jellybeans On thread : I am OW, wife keeps trying to call me..There is a lot of "woe is me" in your post. You were not taken advantage of or "used." You chose to have an affair. Also, you say she must have been "naive" or "overlooked" the affair. That is really...Liked On: 10-11-2012, 08:36 AM
Posted On: 10-11-2012, 08:35 AMMachiavelli liked post by Jellybeans On thread : Travel is an issue....Well I agree with this. The bolded part could work--IF she's amenable. If not, I think he should cut her loose because honestly, this relationship sounds like one hot ass mess.Liked On: 10-10-2012, 08:13 PM
Posted On: 10-10-2012, 02:58 PMmissmolly liked post by Jellybeans On thread : Gut feeling or intuitionI was blind-sided. I trusted him 100%. In hindsight, there were little things that should have set me off, that now I know would in a future relationship but I didn't think it was anything because...Liked On: 10-10-2012, 07:17 PM
Posted On: 10-10-2012, 10:00 AMShaggy liked post by Jellybeans On thread : Just caught him, I'm numbEssentially, by not telling her husband about the affair, you are helping it's secrecy. You enable/help it by not exposing.Liked On: 10-10-2012, 05:59 PM
Posted On: 10-10-2012, 09:04 AMShaggy liked post by Jellybeans On thread : Just caught him, I'm numbYes, tell her husband. He has a right to know. Not only that, but that will definitely bring the afair to light and possibly keep it from picking up again. You need to contact her husband w/o any...Liked On: 10-10-2012, 05:59 PM
Posted On: 10-10-2012, 09:01 AMShaggy liked post by Jellybeans On thread : Am I paranoid and crazyPeople only hide things when there is something worth hiding. You are separating though, right? If you have discussed separating and there is no chance for reconciliation, then you need to accept...Liked On: 10-10-2012, 05:54 PM
Posted On: 10-10-2012, 12:42 PMloveisforever liked post by Jellybeans On thread : Is marriage worth it?Word to the wise: Most people who get married never ever expect to divorce. Most people go in with best intentions. Love is a leap of faith. So is marriage. There are simply NO guarantees with a...Liked On: 10-10-2012, 05:47 PM
Posted On: 10-04-2012, 12:03 PMSara8 liked post by Jellybeans On thread : How important is it for you....She hasn't told her husband. And that is exactly why she told you that she told him--so you won't do anything crazy, like impose on her marriage, like she did to you. Too bad, so sad, I say. I...Liked On: 10-10-2012, 05:10 PM
Posted On: 10-09-2012, 05:06 PMSara8 liked post by Jellybeans On thread : How important is it for you....Why would you beieve the OW when she said she told her husband? The same woman who said it was "just a kiss" when your husband said they had sex? What you do is this: find he husband and tell him...Liked On: 10-10-2012, 05:08 PM
Posted On: 10-09-2012, 02:58 PMMattMatt liked post by Jellybeans On thread : Question for WS's but BS's can chip in too.Most cheaters will have compassion if a topic of infidelity comes up with their spouse/partner there. The ones that do not are probably sociopaths who lack empathy.Liked On: 10-10-2012, 04:44 PM
Posted On: 10-10-2012, 09:50 AMMattMatt liked post by Jellybeans On thread : Am I paranoid and crazyPeople only hide things when there is something worth hiding. You are separating though, right? If you have discussed separating and there is no chance for reconciliation, then you need to accept...Liked On: 10-10-2012, 04:23 PM
Posted On: 10-10-2012, 12:42 PMAirbus liked post by Jellybeans On thread : Get treated like a maid, babysitter, his ex is harassing me...You should have ended it when he cancelled the wedding. It's never too late though. Dump him.Liked On: 10-10-2012, 04:17 PM
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