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KanDo KanDo is offline

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Last Activity: Yesterday 10:13 AM

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  • About KanDo
    I am a:
    Male
    Relationship Status
    Separated
    Length of time in current relationship:
    Undisclosed
    Sexual Orientation
    Heterosexual
    Biography
    In a new steady relationship
    Location
    USA
    Interests
    Movies, flying, fun
    Occupation
    Bum and very successful at it
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    KanDo

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  • Last Activity: Yesterday 10:13 AM
  • Join Date: 06-14-2011

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  1. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by PHTlump On thread : Is this just a harmless fantasy?
    Dominance/rape fantasies are common for both men and women. If you're into it, or you stick with role playing, then its fine. If he actually starts forcing you, not so much. Good luck.
    Liked On: 03-29-2013, 05:07 PM
    Posted On: 03-15-2013, 08:06 AM
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    KanDo liked post by roostr On thread : Husband rejects me all the time, need advice
    I hate to say this, but if he is like this at his age, it is only going to get a lot worse later in life. You are only 28, you have a lot of life ahead of you. Why suffer emotionally when you don't...
    Liked On: 03-29-2013, 03:13 PM
    Posted On: 03-15-2013, 09:29 PM
  3. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by walkonmars On thread : guy needs woman advise cheating wife
    So in short your wife has been open to seeing other men romantically? the first guy hit on her at her work - after a while she told you and they cut it off (as far as you know) The second one...
    Liked On: 03-29-2013, 03:00 PM
    Posted On: 03-29-2013, 02:12 PM
  4. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by Shaggy On thread : guy needs woman advise cheating wife
    Your wife isn't cheating because she isn't happy. She's cheating because she believes she can and get away with it.
    Liked On: 03-29-2013, 02:59 PM
    Posted On: 03-29-2013, 02:05 PM
  5. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by Shaggy On thread : guy needs woman advise cheating wife
    Well you basically agreed to give her the freedom and space to go cheat on you, while you take on the mortgage in your name only. You catch her cheating and the final arrangement is for her to...
    Liked On: 03-29-2013, 02:59 PM
    Posted On: 03-29-2013, 02:05 PM
  6. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by chillymorn On thread : Well it has happened...
    F8 sounds like its time to stick a fork in it. your done! not a bad place to be. time to move on without any guilt you fought the good fight and any effort she puts forth now will feel like a...
    Liked On: 03-29-2013, 09:06 AM
    Posted On: 03-28-2013, 01:41 PM
  7. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by PHTlump On thread : Well it has happened...
    If you've been talking to your wife for 2 years, my advice is to stop talking. Banging your head against the wall isn't going to hurt the wall. I understand the temptation to view your wife's lack...
    Liked On: 03-28-2013, 04:10 PM
    Posted On: 03-28-2013, 10:49 AM
  8. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by anonim On thread : Well it has happened...
    OP why havent you filed for divorce? Or told her, 'if sex is not important to you, then it's no big deal if i have it with someone else?'
    Liked On: 03-28-2013, 04:07 PM
    Posted On: 03-28-2013, 12:24 AM
  9. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by Holland On thread : Well it has happened...
    Both can actually be the same thing. If a partner did care they would take the steps needed to understand, they would be proactive. It is a tough situation frustr8dhubby and I feel your pain. In...
    Liked On: 03-28-2013, 03:58 PM
    Posted On: 03-27-2013, 08:19 PM
  10. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by snap On thread : Classification of what happened while apart?
    Executive summary: She explored her other options, while keeping you on the back burner. Nothing promising ever materialized with other men, as they didn't see the value that you find in her. She...
    Liked On: 03-27-2013, 10:17 AM
    Posted On: 03-26-2013, 03:25 PM
  11. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by walkonmars On thread : Wife's EA, PA - Wants to stay friends with OM
    Of all the nerve! This is the "real" her. The "her" in your head is a fantasy. You want to live in a fantasy? You're asking for a life of her "figuring herself out" Wake up man!
    Liked On: 03-26-2013, 05:31 PM
    Posted On: 03-26-2013, 05:12 PM
  12. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by inmygut On thread : Wife's EA, PA - Wants to stay friends with OM
    1 You do not share the same values 2 No intimacy for years? She wants that, just not from you 3 You can do better than a cheater 4 Read. the MMSL & NMMNG books Posted via Mobile Device
    Liked On: 03-26-2013, 05:27 PM
    Posted On: 03-26-2013, 07:14 AM
  13. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by BobSimmons On thread : Wife's EA, PA - Wants to stay friends with OM
    I think you're co-dependent. What is it exactly you're fighting for? If you wanted to get married I believe you would have gotten married. Something prevented you from doing so, both of you. ...
    Liked On: 03-26-2013, 05:27 PM
    Posted On: 03-26-2013, 06:26 AM
  14. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by Will_Kane On thread : Wife's EA, PA - Wants to stay friends with OM
    Stop believing what your "wife' tells you. She loves the other man and will say or do anything to protect him. She has strong urges for the other man and is trying to rationalize that she is strong...
    Liked On: 03-26-2013, 05:27 PM
    Posted On: 03-25-2013, 10:56 PM
  15. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by phillybeffandswiss On thread : Wife's EA, PA - Wants to stay friends with OM
    I have one good female friend. We only talk at work anything we do outside of work, parties, Super Bowl, etc my wife goes or I don't. She has my number for emergencies and I have hers. I have talked...
    Liked On: 03-26-2013, 05:24 PM
    Posted On: 03-25-2013, 08:04 PM
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