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KanDo KanDo is offline

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  • About KanDo
    I am a:
    Male
    Relationship Status
    Separated
    Length of time in current relationship:
    Undisclosed
    Sexual Orientation
    Heterosexual
    Biography
    In a new steady relationship
    Location
    USA
    Interests
    Movies, flying, fun
    Occupation
    Bum and very successful at it

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  • Last Activity: Today 09:23 AM
  • Join Date: 06-14-2011

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  1. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by Aunt Ava On thread : wife says she never fit in
    After being married for 11 years, if she needs more than a minute to decide you or him....that's a minute too long. Surely, you have enough self respect to refuse to be her plan B. She needs a wake...
    Liked On: 02-04-2013, 11:41 AM
    Posted On: 02-04-2013, 10:14 AM
  2. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by ThreeStrikes On thread : wife says she never fit in
    Yet, she found the time to cheat on you. The reason she is asking for another two weeks to make a decision is because she wants to see how things will work out for the OM. Is his wife going to...
    Liked On: 02-04-2013, 11:40 AM
    Posted On: 02-04-2013, 10:07 AM
  3. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by WorkingOnMe On thread : wife says she never fit in
    Your only chance is to act strong and decisively. But you're doing the opposite. You're acting like you're afraid to lose her. Ironically acting that way will ensure that you look weak and cause her...
    Liked On: 02-04-2013, 11:38 AM
    Posted On: 02-03-2013, 10:06 PM
  4. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by anchorwatch On thread : wife says she never fit in
    Entropy is right, you have to take control quickly. You must be willing to put it all on the line. She either follows your rules or it's D. Right now your letting her decide what's going...
    Liked On: 02-04-2013, 11:36 AM
    Posted On: 02-03-2013, 09:45 PM
  5. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by Created2Write On thread : Relieved that I no longer have to have sex
    Before anything can change, your attitude has to change. That you are "relieved" that you "don't have to have sex anymore" is astonishingly sad to me. You're relieved that you have put your husband...
    Liked On: 01-31-2013, 10:26 AM
    Posted On: 01-27-2013, 09:22 PM
  6. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by unbelievable On thread : Relieved that I no longer have to have sex
    You've established that there is no requirement or expectation for either of you to concern yourselves with the needs of the other. He can't trust you to give what he needs and consequently, you...
    Liked On: 01-31-2013, 10:23 AM
    Posted On: 01-27-2013, 08:40 PM
  7. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by chapparal On thread : Its and affair, what steps do i take?
    How "hard" did you convince the OM? Expose to his wife and let her know her reconcilliation is false.
    Liked On: 01-31-2013, 10:10 AM
    Posted On: 01-24-2013, 06:37 AM
  8. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by chapparal On thread : Its and affair, what steps do i take?
    If you think the affair is really over hold off on the exposure. What you need to do now is verify. Put a VAR under the front seat of her car and one in the house where she might phone from. ...
    Liked On: 01-31-2013, 10:10 AM
    Posted On: 01-24-2013, 06:36 AM
  9. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by Ever-Man On thread : Not Sure If Wife Cheated Or Still Cheating??
    Sounds like she did have an affair, it is almost like she wants you to believe that. Finding another man's underwear in your house, that is solid proof. If all this is in the past and your...
    Liked On: 01-30-2013, 01:43 PM
    Posted On: 01-28-2013, 09:39 PM
  10. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by savevsdeath On thread : Hey men, if you have no problem lying about one thing do you lie about EVERYTHING?!
    It continues to amaze me how many people are utterly clueless and naive about so many aspects of life. Marijuana is not addictive, and she is over-reacting. If he isn't blazing up a big 'ol bowl...
    Liked On: 01-30-2013, 01:32 PM
    Posted On: 11-09-2010, 04:04 AM
  11. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by Shaggy On thread : The Good Wife
    By refusing to end the affair she has made the choice of the OW over you. The marriage is dead and gone. It's not what you wanted to happen, but it is what has happened. Honestly, expose the...
    Liked On: 01-23-2013, 01:38 PM
    Posted On: 01-23-2013, 08:55 AM
  12. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by lovemylife On thread : He bores me sometimes...
    You might also want to set the alarm clock so you get up a bit before he gets home and then he is not waking you up, but you are ready and willing.
    Liked On: 01-23-2013, 01:23 PM
    Posted On: 01-23-2013, 01:20 PM
  13. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by unbelievable On thread : No sex, what needs to change?
    What's wrong with a spouse having sex to please the other spouse? I do things all the time to please my wife or because it strengthens the family. Does your wife really care why you trot out the...
    Liked On: 01-23-2013, 01:22 PM
    Posted On: 01-23-2013, 11:48 AM
  14. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by MaritimeGuy On thread : No sex, what needs to change?
    In my mind once you have the discussion that you're dissatisfied about your sex life together she's either going to consider your position and work with you to find an acceptable solution for...
    Liked On: 01-23-2013, 01:21 PM
    Posted On: 01-23-2013, 10:28 AM
  15. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by aribabe On thread : Thanking wife for sex???
    That seems really silly.... It's 12:30am Who cares how long it takes the oven to cool? It's an oven.... being hot is kind of its job. It won't melt. Promise And if her cat has jumped in once...
    Liked On: 01-22-2013, 01:38 PM
    Posted On: 01-19-2013, 11:33 PM
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