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KanDo KanDo is offline

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Last Activity: 05-16-2013 03:08 PM

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  • About KanDo
    I am a:
    Male
    Relationship Status
    Separated
    Length of time in current relationship:
    Undisclosed
    Sexual Orientation
    Heterosexual
    Biography
    In a new steady relationship
    Location
    USA
    Interests
    Movies, flying, fun
    Occupation
    Bum and very successful at it

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  • Last Activity: 05-16-2013 03:08 PM
  • Join Date: 06-14-2011

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  1. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by diwali123 On thread : Would you expect sex if your wife is under major depression?
    Carbon bunny I have a serious question for you. And I don't mean to be insensitive at all but knowing that sex is a major part of a marriage, and knowing that your husband has a normal sex drive...
    Liked On: 12-31-2012, 03:00 PM
    Posted On: 12-31-2012, 11:45 AM
  2. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by Hicks On thread : Would you expect sex if your wife is under major depression?
    I guess I would turn the question around a little bit. Should you expect your husband not to want sex becuase you are depressed? His sex drive, his emotional needs, these things do not go away...
    Liked On: 12-31-2012, 02:59 PM
    Posted On: 12-30-2012, 08:53 AM
  3. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by bfree On thread : Didn't see this coming !
    Print out the conversations, download and print out and fill out divorce paperwork. Hand it to her and ask her how she wants to divide the assets of your marriage. You need to come out guns blazing...
    Liked On: 12-31-2012, 12:05 PM
    Posted On: 12-31-2012, 08:21 AM
  4. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by walkonmars On thread : Possible affair with Boss
    Your future is not "unsure" it's "very sure" with the actions you've taken. I know it sounds harsh but gaaddammit! You need to be harsh. As long as you insist on talking to him see if this will...
    Liked On: 12-31-2012, 10:31 AM
    Posted On: 12-28-2012, 04:27 PM
  5. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by tom67 On thread : I think my wife cheated on me.
    Call her mother and everyone else asap and tell them the truth.
    Liked On: 12-28-2012, 10:45 AM
    Posted On: 12-28-2012, 01:49 AM
  6. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by warlock07 On thread : I think my wife cheated on me.
    She will be meeting her bf to tell him how she was busted and discuss her future plans . Don't expect her to come back for a while. She idealized him and their relationship while demonizing you. The...
    Liked On: 12-28-2012, 10:45 AM
    Posted On: 12-28-2012, 01:25 AM
  7. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by Tony55 On thread : I think my wife cheated on me.
    You need to keep in mind that you aren't just talking to her, you're talking to both of them, and they're both responding to your inquiries. Do you understand? Everything you're saying to her is...
    Liked On: 12-28-2012, 10:22 AM
    Posted On: 12-27-2012, 03:53 PM
  8. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by kingsfan On thread : Just Wondering
    I know one answer is to not be an a-hole for one week and a nice guy the next...
    Liked On: 12-27-2012, 03:32 PM
    Posted On: 12-19-2012, 04:21 PM
  9. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by Maricha75 On thread : Sick of hearing it---
    Unfortunately, as long as your EAP is still in the picture, you WILL NOT be able to get those feeling back for your husband, no matter how much you say you want to. I agree, he needs to own his...
    Liked On: 12-27-2012, 03:14 PM
    Posted On: 12-26-2012, 11:54 PM
  10. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by Shaggy On thread : Sick of hearing it---
    On the other hand if you set him up just so you can record it, it isn't ok. that's entrapment, and I'm worried that the OP is rewriting history possibly to justify her EA. There's no remorse in...
    Liked On: 12-27-2012, 03:13 PM
    Posted On: 12-26-2012, 11:37 PM
  11. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by underwater2010 On thread : Sick of hearing it---
    While the BS has ownership of the problems in the marriage....your choice to conduct an EA/PA is just that your choice. That means you own 100% of the affair. The good news is that an affair can...
    Liked On: 12-27-2012, 03:11 PM
    Posted On: 12-26-2012, 10:22 PM
  12. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by norajane On thread : Engaged and having doubts about future
    Dude, her arbitrary decisions about your sex life will continue after marriage. She cares nothing about your feelings or desires right now; what makes you think that will get better after she's...
    Liked On: 12-27-2012, 03:04 PM
    Posted On: 12-27-2012, 01:20 PM
  13. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by WorkingOnMe On thread : Engaged and having doubts about future
    The only way I see to reclaim control is to be willing to walk. As long as she knows you'll follow her no matter how she treats you, she will continue her behavior. The worst part is that women, in...
    Liked On: 12-27-2012, 03:02 PM
    Posted On: 12-27-2012, 01:10 PM
  14. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by Andy66 On thread : Engaged and having doubts about future
    I guess once you're married it'll be postponed to when you want to start a family - Seriously though, what did she say when you talked about this issue? It seems to me that she's insulting your...
    Liked On: 12-27-2012, 02:59 PM
    Posted On: 12-27-2012, 04:55 AM
  15. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by chillymorn On thread : my husband has erectile dysfunction
    sounds like you demasculated him by running the show outside the bedroom. and then all of the sudden you want him to be more forcfull inside the bedroom. I don't think you guys are a very good...
    Liked On: 12-27-2012, 02:45 PM
    Posted On: 12-27-2012, 10:47 AM
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