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KanDo KanDo is offline

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  • About KanDo
    I am a:
    Male
    Relationship Status
    Separated
    Length of time in current relationship:
    Undisclosed
    Sexual Orientation
    Heterosexual
    Biography
    In a new steady relationship
    Location
    USA
    Interests
    Movies, flying, fun
    Occupation
    Bum and very successful at it

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  • Last Activity: Yesterday 11:26 AM
  • Join Date: 06-14-2011

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  1. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by KVR On thread : The secret life of my wife
    I am sorry, but why do you even bother? Do you really want to live like this for the rest of your marriage? Based on what you wrote, she has no love left for you. You have no kid. Just file.
    Liked On: 05-09-2013, 11:27 PM
    Posted On: 05-03-2013, 10:30 AM
  2. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by Chris989 On thread : The secret life of my wife
    What you seem to be saying, NatureDave, is that the spouse chose to cheat and it was her choice, but really it was his fault. You are, of course, wrong, but entitled to hold an incorrect view.
    Liked On: 05-09-2013, 11:25 PM
    Posted On: 05-03-2013, 09:38 AM
  3. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by Entropy3000 On thread : The secret life of my wife
    Ok, so your boundaries and mine are not the same and that is fine. However, if my wife went over a male co-workers home and spent the night and did nothing but watch TV I would divorce her. I...
    Liked On: 05-09-2013, 11:20 PM
    Posted On: 05-02-2013, 06:08 PM
  4. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by carolinadreams On thread : I am devasted
    You aren't married, if you don't have children and a house together cut your ties. There are men out there who can be faithful, no need to do the repair work on one who cant.
    Liked On: 05-09-2013, 11:15 PM
    Posted On: 05-09-2013, 07:19 PM
  5. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by jnj express On thread : I dnon't know what to do, please help
    OK, you ain't gonna like this---but you need to read it You are scared shi*less of life aren't you-----you say you are not in misery----then why the he*l, are you here You are being picked...
    Liked On: 05-09-2013, 11:05 PM
    Posted On: 05-09-2013, 08:49 PM
  6. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by thatbpguy On thread : I am back and it gets worse
    Thorburn, my wife was a 2-hour per day Bible reader/prayer. Deeply devout. Heavily involved in the church and morally stout. I was very much in love her and it showed. She betrayed me for 3 mos and...
    Liked On: 05-09-2013, 10:31 PM
    Posted On: 05-09-2013, 07:49 PM
  7. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by BjornFree On thread : Found out about Wife's affair through the other man.
    I recommend seeing the atty. and getting things sorted out on the legal and financial fronts before dropping the bomb. Though, I think the best thing to do is just shut up and serve her without...
    Liked On: 05-09-2013, 09:52 PM
    Posted On: 05-09-2013, 08:21 PM
  8. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by aug On thread : Found out about Wife's affair through the other man.
    If what he's saying is true, then he was duped. And he took steps to correct it. It takes a certain character to be able to do that.
    Liked On: 05-09-2013, 09:49 PM
    Posted On: 05-09-2013, 07:20 PM
  9. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by Kallan Pavithran On thread : After the Lies - their connection fully revealed
    She is not concerned because she knows you want to reconcile. If she saw you getting ready to walk away from her cheating as$, she may have been worried about loosing her safety blanket but you...
    Liked On: 05-09-2013, 05:44 PM
    Posted On: 05-08-2013, 08:41 AM
  10. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by carmen ohio On thread : After the Lies - their connection fully revealed
    Horizon, This is another example of how little self-esteem you have. Your partner cheats flagrantly and you are the one who retreats into a corner. Why is she not the one who relegated to the...
    Liked On: 05-09-2013, 05:19 PM
    Posted On: 04-30-2013, 06:53 AM
  11. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by Rags On thread : What to do?
    I think in this situation, where you seem to have caught the EA in a (fairly) early stage, it's probably not too late to kill it. As I understand it, killing requires exposure - part of the...
    Liked On: 05-09-2013, 05:13 PM
    Posted On: 05-09-2013, 04:01 PM
  12. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by turnera On thread : I am back and it gets worse
    I don't understand why you took her back. I don't see anything in your long schpiel that says she had a real come to Jesus moment - she was caught and she picked the best floating log to hang onto....
    Liked On: 04-30-2013, 02:41 PM
    Posted On: 04-30-2013, 01:38 PM
  13. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by Affaircare On thread : I am back and it gets worse
    I'm going to make a statement here that I doubt will be very popular--to Thorburn or to "the regulars" here who care about him. Here's the truth: for years and years..DECADES really... Thorburn...
    Liked On: 04-30-2013, 10:59 AM
    Posted On: 04-29-2013, 11:59 PM
  14. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by turnera On thread : I am back and it gets worse
    Wow. I'm glad you got to do this. But it's over now, ok? You have to grieve that you will never get what you want from her. Grieve and then move on. Get divorced and go find a woman who...
    Liked On: 04-30-2013, 10:11 AM
    Posted On: 04-25-2013, 09:42 AM
  15. KanDo
    KanDo liked post by tacoma On thread : Financial incentive for sex in marriage
    So you pay your wife for sex, an extremely low rate even. I don't understand how this is satisfactory for you. Don't you care if your wife wants and desires you? Why not skip the marriage...
    Liked On: 04-29-2013, 06:40 PM
    Posted On: 04-28-2013, 02:43 PM
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