- About LillyoftheValley
- I am a:
- Relationship Status
- Length of time in current relationship:
- 8-12 yrs.
- Sexual Orientation
- First of all, the answer is not 42. :) It is:
swimming, blogging, crafting, and dear dear friends, plus music all day long. That is what keeps me going. Now, the reality is that...
We have been married for 11 years going on to 12, and we have a five year old. The first 7 years of our marriage we were students, so we were like roommate lovers, so to speak. However, when real life set in with baby and work, I progressively witnessed my husband turn self-absorbed, and arrogant. I like him when he is in a good mood, but his good mood comes only when everything is quiet and perfect around the house. Not exactly the most dynamic or most light spirited of personalities. I am an energizer bunny, and he is not like me, we are sort of opposites. This really ails me in general, but as I talk to more women in my culture--they are ALL like that. So that's my life situation, and it took me a while to even figure out and later to admit that this describes my marriage accurately, unfortunately.
- painting piano writing dancing
- it will have to be that I am a mom, but I work too outside the house.