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  • Join Date: 05-19-2012

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    MattMatt liked post by EleGirl On thread : Husband clued in to 180...
    If you want to learn more about the 180 get the book "Divorce Busting". The 180 that people suggest here is one that is meant to focus on getting your spouse to give up an affair partner. But in...
    Liked On: 04-27-2013, 03:19 PM
    Posted On: 04-26-2013, 10:25 AM
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    MattMatt liked post by livinfree On thread : Husband clued in to 180...
    Manipulation should not be the motivation of the 180, doing so sets one up for false hopes. 180 prepares one for moving forward with the expectation of life without that partner.
    Liked On: 04-27-2013, 03:18 PM
    Posted On: 04-26-2013, 08:58 AM
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    MattMatt liked post by Robsia On thread : Husband clued in to 180...
    You're assuming that she is doing the highlights/perfume/dress for his benefit. Perhaps she wants to look nice for herself, or to show him what he's missing.
    Liked On: 04-27-2013, 03:18 PM
    Posted On: 04-26-2013, 08:43 AM
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    MattMatt liked post by aquajay On thread : Husband clued in to 180...
    I see your point here... and it's so true. I am going to continue with this mindset. He needs to know that I'm here by choice and not by necessity. I went shopping last night on my way home from...
    Liked On: 04-27-2013, 03:18 PM
    Posted On: 04-26-2013, 06:34 AM
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    MattMatt liked post by waiwera On thread : Husband clued in to 180...
    Good that he's noticing but just explain your looking after yourself. End of conversation. I would print it off and keep it close (in your pocket or purse)...any time you feel yourself weakening...
    Liked On: 04-27-2013, 03:18 PM
    Posted On: 04-24-2013, 02:03 AM
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    MattMatt liked post by Cabsy On thread : Husband clued in to 180...
    I had read about 180s, even tried one a few years ago regarding lack of intimacy, but I didn't fully appreciate the method until she cheated on me. It's not about pretending, or acting, it's about...
    Liked On: 04-27-2013, 03:18 PM
    Posted On: 04-24-2013, 01:18 AM
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    MattMatt liked post by BobSimmons On thread : Husband clued in to 180...
    It's not for him, it's for you. It's detaching yourself and taking care of you. It doesn't matter if he knows, it's certainly having an effect if he's noticing your change in behavior..stick to it,...
    Liked On: 04-27-2013, 03:17 PM
    Posted On: 04-24-2013, 01:03 AM
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    MattMatt liked post by PHTlump On thread : Husband clued in to 180...
    The 180 is not supposed to be a sneak attack. Your husband is supposed to notice a change in your behavior. However, you never admit to him that you're changing in order to try to manipulate him. ...
    Liked On: 04-27-2013, 03:17 PM
    Posted On: 04-23-2013, 11:42 PM
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    MattMatt liked post by richie33 On thread : April is Autism Awareness Month
    I get what you are saying. My wifes sister has been a teacher for 16 years and has no real idea what autism is. For me if my brother or sister had told me my niece or nephew was diagnosed with a...
    Liked On: 04-27-2013, 02:24 PM
    Posted On: 04-27-2013, 07:08 AM
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    MattMatt liked post by Thewife On thread : April is Autism Awareness Month
    The problem is most of the other disabilities are visible to some extend but almost all who have asd are very handsome/good looking and thus many people don't get it. Recently a friend of mine...
    Liked On: 04-27-2013, 02:24 PM
    Posted On: 04-27-2013, 06:49 AM
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    MattMatt liked post by sandc On thread : April is Autism Awareness Month
    No, not me. Caramel is the hero here. Everything my son is, is all due to her tireless work. She basically gave up her life so that he could have one. She tried to divide up the rest of herself...
    Liked On: 04-27-2013, 02:23 PM
    Posted On: 04-26-2013, 06:05 PM
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    MattMatt liked post by BK23 On thread : We both screwed up but...
    ugh... you guys sound really healthy... have you considered an open relationship? Doesn't sound like either of you are much for monogamy.
    Liked On: 04-27-2013, 02:09 PM
    Posted On: 04-23-2013, 03:54 PM
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    MattMatt liked post by TCSRedhead On thread : Reconciliation...
    Reconciliation looks different for everyone. When we had it all come out, I raged and raged against C&B. I told him I hadn't loved him for years, that he hadn't cared about me, that I was done. ...
    Liked On: 04-26-2013, 09:42 PM
    Posted On: 04-26-2013, 05:24 PM
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    MattMatt liked post by calvin On thread : Reconciliation...
    Ws gave up every right they had,all of them. They have no right to expect the BS to take care of them,no right to ask anything of them,infidelity is the ultimate form of abuse. If R is agreed upon...
    Liked On: 04-26-2013, 09:39 PM
    Posted On: 04-26-2013, 05:13 PM
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    MattMatt liked post by ChangingMe On thread : Reconciliation...
    With all due respect, Rookie, your one answer seems to be, ” leave your BS for a while, since that worked for me.” I am so happy your way worked for you and Sweetie, but each relationship is...
    Liked On: 04-26-2013, 09:29 PM
    Posted On: 04-26-2013, 04:15 PM
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