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Sara8 Sara8 is offline

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Last Activity: 03-12-2013 08:47 AM

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  • About Sara8
    I am a:
    Female
    Relationship Status
    Separated
    Length of time in current relationship:
    16-20 yrs.
    Sexual Orientation
    Heterosexual
    Biography
    A blindsided betrayed spouse.
    Location
    Near Chicago, USA

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  • Last Activity: 03-12-2013 08:47 AM
  • Join Date: 05-02-2012

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  1. totallyunexpected
    totallyunexpected liked post by Sara8 On thread : What to do?
    Of course you're bothered by all the lies. forgive yourself and keep posting. It's like therapy to type your thoughts and have others respond.
    Liked On: 04-15-2013, 12:42 PM
    Posted On: 07-05-2012, 09:10 AM
  2. LongWalk
    LongWalk liked post by Sara8 On thread : Another fight and more triggers
    There was at time when I had to really put a damper on the urge to have a revenge affair. It is so easy for a woman to find a sexual partner and my cheater husband's single best friend would have...
    Liked On: 04-10-2013, 04:27 PM
    Posted On: 05-17-2012, 10:40 AM
  3. ScorchedEarth
    ScorchedEarth liked post by Sara8 On thread : She Cheated. I hate my life.
    Smart has nothing to do with it. You are likely more intellectual than your wife. There are studies that show that the more intellectual the person, the less likely they are to cheat because they...
    Liked On: 03-05-2013, 08:59 PM
    Posted On: 10-02-2012, 11:31 AM
  4. totallyunexpected
    totallyunexpected liked post by Sara8 On thread : Thinking of asking H to do a polygraph
    I agree about making threats that won't be backed up with action. Good point. I am waffling about not asking question that Rowan can't handle. Why? Because none of the answers to any of...
    Liked On: 02-21-2013, 09:30 PM
    Posted On: 09-28-2012, 12:06 PM
  5. Granny7
    Granny7 liked post by Sara8 On thread : Thinking of asking H to do a polygraph
    I agree about making threats that won't be backed up with action. Good point. I am waffling about not asking question that Rowan can't handle. Why? Because none of the answers to any of...
    Liked On: 02-19-2013, 12:16 AM
    Posted On: 09-28-2012, 12:06 PM
  6. Lazarus
    Lazarus liked post by Sara8 On thread : Just found out about my wife's affair
    Perhaps this guy had been with a woman that cheated prior and new the signs. This is in the same category as the studied that showed that jealous possessive spouses are cheated on far less often....
    Liked On: 01-25-2013, 04:42 PM
    Posted On: 06-19-2012, 07:20 AM
  7. lordmayhem
    lordmayhem liked post by Sara8 On thread : Is kissing cheating?
    All cheaters swear when lying The OW in my case swore on her four children. My husband swore on the his own life. Kiss is cheat speak for full sex. Ask her to do a poly.
    Liked On: 01-24-2013, 12:34 AM
    Posted On: 10-05-2012, 12:12 PM
  8. phillybeffandswiss
    phillybeffandswiss liked post by Sara8 On thread : Is kissing cheating?
    Yes. Good approach. When the Marriage counselor asked my cheating spouse if it would be okay with him if I had an affair with another man, he literally jumped out of his chair and yelled "NO". ...
    Liked On: 01-24-2013, 12:12 AM
    Posted On: 10-05-2012, 12:16 PM
  9. John2012
    John2012 liked post by Sara8 On thread : How Many Men Didn't Reconcile After Affair and Wife Was Remorseful.
    I agree Mori: I think the majority of the woman may stay in the marriage longer, but eventually bail, even if the man never cheats again. They just get fed up with putting up with his faults...
    Liked On: 12-07-2012, 12:43 PM
    Posted On: 06-28-2012, 10:34 AM
  10. LetDownNTX
    LetDownNTX liked post by Sara8 On thread : Can my marriage be saved?
    Betrayed wife here. This women is truly immature to play mind games with your after the emotional affair discovery. Cheating early in the marriage is always a bad sign, according to all the...
    Liked On: 11-13-2012, 11:26 AM
    Posted On: 09-14-2012, 01:06 PM
  11. TDSC60
    TDSC60 liked post by Sara8 On thread : Hurt and Betrayed
    The words I put into bold is cheater speak for I want to leave but I want to find a way to blame you. Hence he claims he needs to leave 'cause he is psychic and knows that you will never forgive...
    Liked On: 11-02-2012, 05:41 PM
    Posted On: 10-17-2012, 11:51 AM
  12. Shaggy
    Shaggy liked post by Sara8 On thread : Am I in the majority?
    Wow, racer, that's an excellent approach. Good suggestion.
    Liked On: 10-24-2012, 12:28 AM
    Posted On: 10-17-2012, 10:36 AM
  13. Shaggy
    Shaggy liked post by Sara8 On thread : Am I in the majority?
    I think that is an excellent idea. I bet it will sell like a hotcake if you mention it's about an affair situation. You can also self publish at sites like Xlibris. Writing your book will...
    Liked On: 10-24-2012, 12:27 AM
    Posted On: 10-17-2012, 10:13 AM
  14. Shaggy
    Shaggy liked post by Sara8 On thread : Am I in the majority?
    I think your are being very realistic. A three year long affair is a tough one to get past. Your spouse is lucky you didn't divorce him and take the house and half plus alimony. Also, In...
    Liked On: 10-24-2012, 12:27 AM
    Posted On: 10-17-2012, 09:48 AM
  15. In_The_Wind
    In_The_Wind liked post by Sara8 On thread : contacting Affair Partner
    Send the restricted certified to ensure he has to sign for it. The OW wouldn't talk to me initially. Later he got curious and called me. When, I showed the videos the Ow sent my STBEH, to...
    Liked On: 10-22-2012, 08:58 AM
    Posted On: 10-08-2012, 11:37 AM
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