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  • About Seesaw
    I am a:
    Male
    Relationship Status
    Marriage
    Length of time in current relationship:
    16-20 yrs.
    Sexual Orientation
    Heterosexual
    Biography
    45 years old, WW 38. Two kids, 9 & 6. Sixth month EA DDay April 2012. In R.
    Location
    UK - England
    Interests
    Music, Motorcycles, Philosophy.

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  1. Seesaw
    Seesaw liked post by Dollystanford On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    dude, you're quoting Kant at her? excellent :smthumbup:
    Liked On: 06-11-2012, 07:31 AM
    Posted On: 06-10-2012, 01:54 PM
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    Seesaw liked post by Acabado On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    It's perfect. Sending mojo.
    Liked On: 06-11-2012, 07:31 AM
    Posted On: 06-10-2012, 01:48 PM
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    Seesaw liked post by Eli-Zor On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    Interesting to hear her response . Whatever it is don't let it degrade to a debate, state your terms and walk away. She is either on the marriage bus or not.
    Liked On: 06-11-2012, 07:31 AM
    Posted On: 06-10-2012, 01:11 PM
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    Seesaw liked post by Eli-Zor On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    A suggestion on the sleeping arrangements, you should stay in the marital bed, if anyone has to move to the spare room it is your wife. Posted via Mobile Device
    Liked On: 06-11-2012, 07:31 AM
    Posted On: 06-10-2012, 04:46 AM
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    Seesaw liked post by 8yearscheating On thread : after d-day stuff..
    I know your feelings and just want to start with NO ONE posting on here knows your wife or you or the complete details of your situation. This site is filled with angry and negative people who feel...
    Liked On: 06-09-2012, 05:22 AM
    Posted On: 04-18-2011, 08:50 AM
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    Seesaw liked post by seeking sanity On thread : after d-day stuff..
    I don't find all this projection by other posters anger to be anyway helpful. 13th floor - telling her to jump off a bridge is complete bs. I've had a suicidal spouse and I can tell you that being in...
    Liked On: 06-09-2012, 05:19 AM
    Posted On: 04-14-2011, 10:37 AM
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    Seesaw liked post by Affaircare On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    :iagree: :iagree: Seesaw, I saw one important concept that Eli-Zor tried to communicate to you, and I think you misunderstood it and then dismissed it due to the misinterpretation. He...
    Liked On: 06-08-2012, 05:09 PM
    Posted On: 06-08-2012, 05:02 PM
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    Seesaw liked post by Eli-Zor On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    Explain it as a boundary issue, add to the conversation that you guys require at least 20 plus hours alone time , not tv time . If she asks where you heard this it from a Dr Harley who specialises in...
    Liked On: 06-08-2012, 05:03 PM
    Posted On: 06-08-2012, 04:51 PM
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    Seesaw liked post by Eli-Zor On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    You don't have to lighten up, let your wife know you and her require couple time , the other guy can go somewhere else. For any relationship to work there is a certain amount of time reserved...
    Liked On: 06-08-2012, 05:03 PM
    Posted On: 06-08-2012, 04:20 PM
  10. Seesaw
    Seesaw liked post by iheartlife On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    Just as long as you're not hanging your hat on the numbers. They are just averages. And a new strong "hit" of the OM can take you back and restart the clock when she's so recently left the affair. ...
    Liked On: 06-08-2012, 05:03 PM
    Posted On: 06-08-2012, 08:44 AM
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    Seesaw liked post by iheartlife On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    Sorry if I've mentioned this before, but there is yet another good book, Boundaries in Marriage by Cloud and Townsend, for the two of you to read together. This is a book that you can work on to help...
    Liked On: 06-08-2012, 05:03 PM
    Posted On: 06-08-2012, 08:00 AM
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    Seesaw liked post by Eli-Zor On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    :smthumbup: if she has stopped the affair and gone NC then you drop the 180 as it will drive her away. The 180 is to protect you if a WW continues with the affair. My recommendation is...
    Liked On: 06-08-2012, 05:03 PM
    Posted On: 06-08-2012, 05:27 AM
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    Seesaw liked post by anonymouskitty On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    :rolleyes: This is the classic example of a person who's had the wool pulled over his/her eyes by the WS THE AFFAIR IS COMPLETELY THE WS's fault 100% Sure both the BS and the WS are...
    Liked On: 06-08-2012, 05:02 PM
    Posted On: 06-07-2012, 12:37 AM
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    Seesaw liked post by Machiavelli On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    Does she write her own stuff? Were you ever in a band yourself? I'm guessing you were, but if I were in your shoes with small kids with a W returning to the biz, I'd have to be in the band myself or...
    Liked On: 06-08-2012, 05:02 PM
    Posted On: 06-06-2012, 11:05 PM
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    Seesaw liked post by Amplexor On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    That is part of the fog and it's use to protect the WS emotionally. She is disconnected from you there for she has little empathy, hence she doesn't feel bad in hurting you. That's all part of the...
    Liked On: 06-08-2012, 05:02 PM
    Posted On: 06-06-2012, 01:16 PM
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