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Last Activity: Yesterday 01:57 PM

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  • About Seesaw
    I am a:
    Male
    Relationship Status
    Marriage
    Length of time in current relationship:
    16-20 yrs.
    Sexual Orientation
    Heterosexual
    Biography
    45 years old, WW 38. Two kids, 9 & 6. Sixth month EA DDay April 2012. In R.
    Location
    UK - England
    Interests
    Music, Motorcycles, Philosophy.

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  • Last Activity: Yesterday 01:57 PM
  • Join Date: 06-05-2012

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  1. Seesaw
    Seesaw liked post by golfergirl On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    I guess from my end, I wonder if it's the anonymous internet world, but you seems so not serious about this. Like - 'oooh she got me there'. Your best friend counts on the fact she can play dumb,...
    Liked On: 06-25-2012, 02:18 PM
    Posted On: 06-16-2012, 01:23 PM
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    Seesaw liked post by Zanna On thread : A cheater's perspective - 4 weeks past D-Day
    Barnowl, you got that right. If you don't deal with this in this R, it will carry into your next one. When the sex goes, it means there are other issues in the M that need attending to. I was...
    Liked On: 06-25-2012, 12:03 PM
    Posted On: 06-24-2012, 10:15 PM
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    Seesaw liked post by anonymouskitty On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    Its an agonizingly slow process, just stay on top of the situation for now All the best mate
    Liked On: 06-25-2012, 11:59 AM
    Posted On: 06-25-2012, 11:44 AM
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    Seesaw liked post by OldWolf57 On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    Ask her does she like being a mother and wife. Ask did she commit to being that before marriage. If yes, ask did she mean it then. If yes, then she has found herself. She just have to find a way to...
    Liked On: 06-25-2012, 11:59 AM
    Posted On: 06-21-2012, 07:16 AM
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    Seesaw liked post by Eli-Zor On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    Indeed, your a lot more aware of what to look for now and if she breaches the boundaries again you will have to act decisively. Every so often step back for a little you time and look in with...
    Liked On: 06-25-2012, 11:58 AM
    Posted On: 06-20-2012, 03:32 PM
  6. Seesaw
    Seesaw liked post by Almostrecovered On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    Well beware of empty promises, she may be reacting to the scare and then go back to her old ways, keep an eye open Posted via Mobile Device
    Liked On: 06-25-2012, 11:58 AM
    Posted On: 06-20-2012, 01:00 PM
  7. Seesaw
    Seesaw liked post by chapparal On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    I don't understand what she doesn't get. She had an affair, maybe emotional. You almost divorced her. But, she doesn't think its a big deal? You do not know how to communicate with her.
    Liked On: 06-19-2012, 06:23 AM
    Posted On: 06-18-2012, 05:23 PM
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    Seesaw liked post by chapparal On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    I am not advocating divorce. Keep reading. Is the depression diagnosis new? I really don't understand how she would not get the Wayward Spouse Instructons if you are going over them together....
    Liked On: 06-19-2012, 06:22 AM
    Posted On: 06-17-2012, 05:33 PM
  9. Seesaw
    Seesaw liked post by OldWolf57 On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    SS, when she wanted to have a family, there was no "finding myself" then. That is what she wanted an was, a mother an wife. Now, she is acting like some teenager just starting out in music an...
    Liked On: 06-19-2012, 06:22 AM
    Posted On: 06-19-2012, 03:24 AM
  10. Seesaw
    Seesaw liked post by Wanting a Strong Marriage On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    She doesn't have the emotional energy to put into your relationship because she is spending it on her OM's. My philosophy is I only have a certain amount of emotional energy to spend a day. If I...
    Liked On: 06-19-2012, 06:21 AM
    Posted On: 06-19-2012, 01:21 AM
  11. Seesaw
    Seesaw liked post by iheartlife On thread : I could do with an outside view on this please.
    I completely get what your position is. And if you were there for her, as you say you were, and she was busy seeking out comfort from another direction, then it's understandable that you would feel...
    Liked On: 06-18-2012, 02:34 PM
    Posted On: 06-18-2012, 01:31 PM
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    Seesaw liked post by morituri On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    DO NOT even think of Gingriching her. That is the lowest of lows even if she's a cheating wife.
    Liked On: 06-18-2012, 10:37 AM
    Posted On: 06-17-2012, 03:51 PM
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    Seesaw liked post by lordmayhem On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    http://rowell.smugmug.com/photos/i-bkdQFdj/0/M/i-bkdQFdj-M.jpg
    Liked On: 06-18-2012, 10:37 AM
    Posted On: 06-18-2012, 07:47 AM
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    Seesaw liked post by Eli-Zor On thread : No Contact Rule and Being Sorry
    I've seen this many a time , they seem to want to block it out and pretend that what they were doing is innocent . Often this leads to them readily entering another affair some time later . One of...
    Liked On: 06-18-2012, 10:37 AM
    Posted On: 06-18-2012, 07:21 AM
  15. Seesaw
    Seesaw liked post by cpacan On thread : Can't Figure Out Our Next Step
    Hmm... I think that I will go against mainstream here. I don't know if you two really had a genuine relationship before your affair, so maybe it's just not meant for the two of you to be together....
    Liked On: 06-18-2012, 10:24 AM
    Posted On: 06-18-2012, 03:45 AM
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