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Last Activity: 06-15-2013 03:58 AM
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- Marriage
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- 16-20 yrs.
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- Heterosexual
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- learning how to spell
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- the guy liked post by SomedayDig On thread : Just found out...need advice :(Well, man...sorry you're here. It really sucks to add another to the rank and file of TAM. Anyway, you're going to hear a lot of advice and it's gonna come at you really rapid fire. Take a...Liked On: 04-11-2013, 11:29 PM
Posted On: 04-11-2013, 05:10 PMthe guy liked post by C-man On thread : Who do I talk to about possible infidelity?SoCon: You've made a good start - don't lose momentum by allowing your wife to stonewall. The only reason she is doing this is because she is afraid of the fallout for the OM. Not a good sign...Liked On: 04-11-2013, 10:46 PM
Posted On: 04-11-2013, 09:53 PMthe guy liked post by Will_Kane On thread : Who do I talk to about possible infidelity?Your wife knows exactly when it started. Probably to the day. If she is telling you things like "around the end of the summer, probably August or September," you know you are being lied to. When...Liked On: 04-11-2013, 09:04 PM
Posted On: 04-11-2013, 09:01 PMthe guy liked post by Machiavelli On thread : Who do I talk to about possible infidelity?That was an eventful 24 hours of posting. VARs rule the battlespace once again! I wonder how the gaslighting session went...Liked On: 04-10-2013, 11:14 PM
Posted On: 04-10-2013, 10:52 PMthe guy liked post by NOTREADYTOQUITYET On thread : What to do....My thoughts are make it rough on her or be there more for the kids.. And if Im ultimately doing it for me than I guess its be a hero to the kids.Liked On: 04-10-2013, 10:42 PM
Posted On: 04-10-2013, 10:25 PMthe guy liked post by NOTREADYTOQUITYET On thread : What to do....She lives at her sisters. The OM is divorced and is ex that she actually lived with right out of high school. She hasnt had the best life. Her dad is on his 3rd marriage and her mom is married and...Liked On: 04-10-2013, 10:04 PM
Posted On: 04-08-2013, 11:43 PMthe guy liked post by peaceandlove On thread : I don't know where to begin...I did read each and everyone's response on here. I haven't had the time to respond, having a busy week. This is not a fake post, for those who seems to think it is. I will respond in detail...Liked On: 04-10-2013, 08:09 PM
Posted On: 04-10-2013, 09:33 AMthe guy liked post by Ovid On thread : Drowning in a sea of confusionVAR in the car never hurt anyone :)Liked On: 04-10-2013, 08:00 PM
Posted On: 04-10-2013, 06:46 PMthe guy liked post by NOTREADYTOQUITYET On thread : What to do....Thanks for input. Off to make someones life hell.Liked On: 04-09-2013, 12:29 AM
Posted On: 04-09-2013, 12:21 AMthe guy liked post by Thumper On thread : What to do....Mines a work in progress, at least she's attending MC now. So there is at least hope. Wouldn't have gotten there without the 180 though. I've made all the mistakes your making right now, and that...Liked On: 04-09-2013, 12:19 AM
Posted On: 04-09-2013, 12:12 AMthe guy liked post by NOTREADYTOQUITYET On thread : What to do....I like how you put this. Its not about being jealous. Its about getting rid of unhealthy relationships around you.Liked On: 04-08-2013, 11:49 PM
Posted On: 04-08-2013, 11:48 PMthe guy liked post by Machiavelli On thread : my wife wants sex all the timeDude, your real problems start when she quits wanting it. If you're not up to the task, get an implant.Liked On: 04-08-2013, 10:57 PM
Posted On: 04-08-2013, 10:26 PMthe guy liked post by PBear On thread : Questions for those who have cheated1) Lack of intimacy was the single biggest factor, as well as a healthy dose of selfishness (i.e. believing I "deserved" a satisfying sex life while not being brave/strong enough to get out of a bad...Liked On: 04-08-2013, 10:33 PM
Posted On: 04-08-2013, 09:57 PMthe guy liked post by Rand OmGuy On thread : Wife of 13 years cheated w/ my best friendSandC - There is no concequence strong enough or harsh enough to match what she did. There is no punishment to match or take away the pain. Punishment is not going to work and not going to undo or...Liked On: 04-08-2013, 08:43 PM
Posted On: 04-08-2013, 03:02 PMthe guy liked post by Horizon On thread : Where the truth liesThanks Slater - I have no excuses now. I really can't make any demands on her to stop drinking and spending frivolously. It hasn't worked before and infidelity is not going to be a bargaining...Liked On: 04-08-2013, 08:28 PM
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