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Last Activity: 06-15-2013 03:58 AM
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- 16-20 yrs.
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- the guy liked post by carolinadreams On thread : People Want to Avoid Adknowledging InfidelityThe community I live in has a fairly active, forum where people talk about an assortment of local issues. I thought to myself, you know people don't normally consider preventing infidelity until...Liked On: 04-08-2013, 07:10 PM
Posted On: 04-08-2013, 12:40 PMthe guy liked post by alte Dame On thread : Who do I talk to about possible infidelity?You can't stop this from turning your life upside down, but you can be determined and as steady as possible in how you proceed. So, get a grip, make a plan, and take action. This will minimize damage...Liked On: 04-07-2013, 01:24 PM
Posted On: 04-07-2013, 11:52 AMthe guy liked post by LanieB On thread : "I didn't think of my spouse at all"??They never forget they're married, they just purposefully push the thought to the back of their minds - compartmentalizing. I was just sitting here thinking this very thought. People in affairs are...Liked On: 04-07-2013, 01:17 PM
Posted On: 04-07-2013, 10:26 AMthe guy liked post by Shamwow On thread : Who do I talk to about possible infidelity?Agree, but not until you have confronted with your proof, otherwise you're the dude asking her mommy and daddy to fix it for you, while she's telling them (and YOU) that you're crazy. Tell them when...Liked On: 04-07-2013, 03:10 AM
Posted On: 04-07-2013, 02:24 AMthe guy liked post by Machiavelli On thread : Who do I talk to about possible infidelity?So far, she's succeeded. When did your sex life go in the crapper?Liked On: 04-07-2013, 12:32 AM
Posted On: 04-07-2013, 12:23 AMthe guy liked post by Shamwow On thread : gf's cousin just confided an A to her...Missed these comments, haven't been around much lately. GF's cousin is now divorced since December. She eventually told her (now) ex-H that there was someone else. He just kinda backed out and...Liked On: 04-06-2013, 10:49 PM
Posted On: 04-06-2013, 08:47 PMthe guy liked post by Lonely&frustrated On thread : Am i over reacting?I gotta stop posting from my phone, it messes up the thread or im just no good at posting lol. I dunno, but im gonna keep quiet and keylogg his comp, that way i will have NO DOUBT in my mind!! Next...Liked On: 04-06-2013, 09:58 PM
Posted On: 04-06-2013, 09:54 PMthe guy liked post by Thorburn On thread : Sex Addiction & Serial Cheater Question..Carnes is very good. My WS is a serial cheater, porn addict, and sex addict. Having said that I was a chaplain for years and gave up my ordination last year over my wife's cheating. I am a...Liked On: 04-06-2013, 08:35 PM
Posted On: 04-05-2013, 06:25 PMthe guy liked post by LanieB On thread : Guide to confronting a wayward spouse:rofl::lol: Hahahahahaha! Love it! Thanks for making me laugh! I mean, we've gotta laugh sometimes, right??Liked On: 04-06-2013, 06:41 PM
Posted On: 04-06-2013, 06:38 PMthe guy liked post by carolinadreams On thread : As good as it can be for nowI've almost said virtually the same words to her. You killed the old marriage, this is something new. She is doing the work, daily she wishes she could undo what she did - she wasn't made to...Liked On: 04-06-2013, 06:15 PM
Posted On: 04-06-2013, 06:12 PMthe guy liked post by goshjosh On thread : snooping/confrontationDon't confront unless you are absolutely 100% ready. You only get one chance. Don't do it with anger and spite -- it should be clinical and methodical. For legal purposes, you do not want to let her...Liked On: 04-06-2013, 05:29 PM
Posted On: 04-02-2013, 08:11 PMthe guy liked post by weightlifter On thread : snooping/confrontationSTOP STOP STOP!!!!!!! Before you confront, read post 1 of the RDMU thread in the private members section. You will need 1 more post to have access to that section. Be VERY VERY VERY careful...Liked On: 04-06-2013, 05:28 PM
Posted On: 04-02-2013, 05:18 PMthe guy liked post by dre43 On thread : What's the best way to confront?I appreciate all the kind words. I am not perfect and have my own issues, but feel I am open-minded. I have stood by him through some tough times. I guess that's part of the reason why I haven't...Liked On: 04-06-2013, 01:38 PM
Posted On: 04-02-2013, 07:10 AMthe guy liked post by Thoreau On thread : Suspecting wife may be cheatingVery bad sign. VAR the car, check cell phone records.Liked On: 04-06-2013, 10:31 AM
Posted On: 04-06-2013, 06:58 AMthe guy liked post by Whip Morgan On thread : Wife of 13 years cheated w/ my best friendPlease don't ignore what everyone has already stated: there are more secrets you don't know about. Hard to believe it was only one time. Posted via Mobile DeviceLiked On: 04-04-2013, 09:10 PM
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