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  • About tm84
    I am a:
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    Length of time in current relationship:
    4-8 yrs.
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    Heterosexual
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    Found TAM after my EA was discovered in June, 2011. I'm working on rebuilding my relationship and marriage with my wife.
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    tm84 liked post by Hope1964 On thread : Husband making new friendships with single women, ok?
    This book is a great one for issues like this Dr. Shirley Glass - NOT "Just Friends" (http://www.shirleyglass.com/bookmain.htm)
    Liked On: 01-29-2013, 06:19 PM
    Posted On: 01-28-2013, 03:24 PM
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    tm84 liked post by Acorn On thread : Husband making new friendships with single women, ok?
    I suggest that you and your H sit down and discuss what is appropriate as far as opposite sex friendships go, and that you should be prepared to give up these single Facebook friends if he asks you...
    Liked On: 01-29-2013, 06:19 PM
    Posted On: 01-28-2013, 03:05 PM
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    tm84 liked post by BuddyL33 On thread : Husband making new friendships with single women, ok?
    As a basic rule it isn't a good idea for a married person to create new friendships with singles of the opposite sex. It's just inviting trouble, even if that's not the intent. There isn't a chance...
    Liked On: 01-29-2013, 06:18 PM
    Posted On: 01-28-2013, 02:22 PM
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    tm84 liked post by Toffer On thread : Husband making new friendships with single women, ok?
    Try flipping the roles around here Ask your husband how HE'D feel if it was you friending single males and getting invites for play dates. Suddendly play dates won't look so tame to him!
    Liked On: 01-29-2013, 06:18 PM
    Posted On: 01-28-2013, 02:05 PM
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    tm84 liked post by Acorn On thread : Husband making new friendships with single women, ok?
    Just out of curiosity, do you have single male friends? The wording struck me as odd. Anyway, assuming you don't, I'd say just be honest - tell him that your marriage is important enough for you...
    Liked On: 01-29-2013, 06:18 PM
    Posted On: 01-28-2013, 01:52 PM
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    tm84 liked post by KathyBatesel On thread : help
    Don't marry him! If you aren't ready to leave, fine. But don't tie yourself to him legally if you're being abused and neglected.
    Liked On: 01-27-2013, 02:10 PM
    Posted On: 01-27-2013, 09:54 AM
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    tm84 liked post by Aunt Ava On thread : Give Valentine's Gift while doing 180?
    The 180 is about protecting yourself and getting to a place of "meh". You are not in meh if you want to buy her a gift, you are trying to nice her back. DON'T. Give your precious daughters valentines...
    Liked On: 01-26-2013, 06:28 PM
    Posted On: 01-26-2013, 09:10 AM
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    tm84 liked post by EleGirl On thread : humor or should i be concerned
    Becuase of his comments about killing you and the kids, do not tell him when you are getting ready to leave. Just do it. You can have the police help you later. They can escort you to the house...
    Liked On: 01-26-2013, 05:10 PM
    Posted On: 01-26-2013, 05:08 PM
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    tm84 liked post by KathyBatesel On thread : humor or should i be concerned
    It does sound like finances is a crappy reason to stay if you're that close to leaving AND he's behaving this way.
    Liked On: 01-26-2013, 05:03 PM
    Posted On: 01-26-2013, 04:47 PM
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    tm84 liked post by EleGirl On thread : humor or should i be concerned
    I was just talking to my brother, the one who knew the pastor's family that was killed. The topic of killing in video games came up. That 15 year old was not allowed to play that kind of game at...
    Liked On: 01-26-2013, 04:49 PM
    Posted On: 01-26-2013, 03:06 PM
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    tm84 liked post by Entropy3000 On thread : Strip clubs.. lots of them...!!!
    This is our boundary. That said, I avoid strip clubs. They were fun when I was single and 20. Now they just seem skanky to me.
    Liked On: 01-25-2013, 09:40 PM
    Posted On: 01-21-2013, 06:28 PM
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    tm84 liked post by FrenchFry On thread : Tired of women saying they want a nice guy
    Ok, straight up: Doing it (the card thing) every month when you've been dating less than a year is excessive to most people. It loses it's specialness, becomes rote and eventually means...
    Liked On: 01-14-2013, 11:14 PM
    Posted On: 01-14-2013, 10:35 PM
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    tm84 liked post by in my tree On thread : Feeling guity because of "happy ending."
    There is nothing wrong with massages but, if you are true in your feelings of guilt, then you can look up a massage therapy place or even get a suggestion from your MD as to where to go. A "parlor"...
    Liked On: 12-29-2012, 06:08 PM
    Posted On: 12-29-2012, 02:06 PM
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    tm84 liked post by Mavash. On thread : Life goal issues
    Your wife looks at having a partner as something she wants but doesn't need. Her list is largely about her and little about you. If you move back to her hometown you'll be on the back burner so...
    Liked On: 12-18-2012, 06:09 PM
    Posted On: 12-18-2012, 08:53 AM
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    tm84 liked post by Kronk On thread : Male teacher, 55, hugs me and call me soulmate - why?
    Tell your father what is going on. If it was my daughter I would snap my leg off in his a$$.
    Liked On: 12-18-2012, 06:04 PM
    Posted On: 12-18-2012, 05:04 PM
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