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  • About tm84
    I am a:
    Male
    Relationship Status
    Marriage
    Length of time in current relationship:
    4-8 yrs.
    Sexual Orientation
    Heterosexual
    Biography
    Found TAM after my EA was discovered in June, 2011. I'm working on rebuilding my relationship and marriage with my wife.
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  • Last Activity: Yesterday 06:07 PM
  • Join Date: 07-24-2011

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  1. tm84
    tm84 liked post by the guy On thread : Help me! Am I right or just paranoid?
    Bad behavior has consequences, and the biggest consequenses is the lose of her marriage so as to protect your own emotional health. You kids need a father that is happy and healthy and not giving...
    Liked On: 12-10-2012, 06:05 PM
    Posted On: 12-10-2012, 05:35 PM
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    tm84 liked post by Weakendwarrior On thread : Husband told me he does not want to work, ever.
    Interesting thread. I'm an artist (jazz musician) but have worked a day job I don't particularly enjoy for the past thirty years. I'm the sole breadwinner and I'm fine with that because my wife has...
    Liked On: 12-10-2012, 05:52 PM
    Posted On: 12-10-2012, 08:13 AM
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    tm84 liked post by jaquen On thread : Husband told me he does not want to work, ever.
    Dear God. There is so much projection going on here. OK. Pursuing the arts professionally, in an attempt to make this a viable living, is an extremely tough endeavour. The work hours are long,...
    Liked On: 12-10-2012, 05:51 PM
    Posted On: 12-07-2012, 12:15 AM
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    tm84 liked post by EleGirl On thread : bf kind of treats me like a maid but doesn't think so
    If either or both of you are yelling and saying mean things to each other, it's the right thing to do before the yelling and meaness starts. Let him know that you are not walking out but defusing...
    Liked On: 12-09-2012, 06:05 PM
    Posted On: 12-09-2012, 05:44 PM
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    tm84 liked post by delirium On thread : Why do people despise cheating?
    Troll.
    Liked On: 12-09-2012, 04:31 PM
    Posted On: 12-09-2012, 12:29 AM
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    tm84 liked post by I'mInLoveWithMyHubby On thread : Pressure to marry, feeling overwhelmed
    She is showing you who she is. If you don't like what you see now, maybe it's time to move on. The choice is up to you. Will she change as a person? Only if she wants to. You can not change...
    Liked On: 12-09-2012, 01:16 PM
    Posted On: 12-09-2012, 05:47 AM
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    tm84 liked post by Soifon On thread : I Am Living In A Nightmare Marriage. Need Serious Help
    She shouldn't do anything on a daily basis. She needs to grab a suitcase, pack what is absolutely needed and walk out that door. Why are you waiting until you are financially stable? You will...
    Liked On: 12-04-2012, 06:33 PM
    Posted On: 12-04-2012, 01:16 PM
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    tm84 liked post by trex On thread : boyfriend doesn't like lingerie or the thought of role playing
    I think it depends on the type of roll playing. I've never been into it much, either. I could see myself going for something subtle, pick her up at a bar, play naughty massage therapist, etc. ...
    Liked On: 12-03-2012, 06:35 PM
    Posted On: 12-03-2012, 01:11 PM
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    tm84 liked post by Cosmos On thread : boyfriend doesn't like lingerie or the thought of role playing
    Have you asked him what he doesn't like about it? Perhaps when he said that he isn't good at it, he meant that he's a little self conscious about it. Ask him.
    Liked On: 12-03-2012, 06:31 PM
    Posted On: 12-02-2012, 09:55 PM
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    tm84 liked post by Soifon On thread : I Am Living In A Nightmare Marriage. Need Serious Help
    Why can't you move out immediately? I would be on the first plane out of there and going back to my own country and family. Do you not have any family that would take you in temporarily till you...
    Liked On: 12-03-2012, 05:59 PM
    Posted On: 12-03-2012, 02:44 PM
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    tm84 liked post by CandieGirl On thread : How Do You Do It??
    What point is doing the 180, if you're letting your husband continue to cheat? 180 on him now, he'll love it, it'll give him all the time he needs to carry on his affair. Shove that cell phone up...
    Liked On: 12-03-2012, 05:41 PM
    Posted On: 12-03-2012, 05:22 PM
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    tm84 liked post by DayDream On thread : How Do You Do It??
    You don't need our opinion on whether or not that is appropriate conversation. You know already it is totally inappropriate. Don't turn into a psycho, don't blow up, don't be monstrous...just calmly...
    Liked On: 12-03-2012, 05:41 PM
    Posted On: 12-03-2012, 03:06 PM
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    tm84 liked post by EleGirl On thread : Husband told me he does not want to work, ever.
    You know, I see all of what you said in my husband's situation. His love is writing. He has many almost finished books. He can sit down and write several hundred page novel from start to almost...
    Liked On: 12-03-2012, 05:08 PM
    Posted On: 12-03-2012, 01:31 PM
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    tm84 liked post by jaquen On thread : Husband told me he does not want to work, ever.
    I've been in your husband's shoes before, unfortunately. I am an artist, and unless you're an artist down to your soul, it's hard to get us. "Regular" jobs can feel extremely soul sucking, and it can...
    Liked On: 12-03-2012, 05:07 PM
    Posted On: 12-03-2012, 12:11 PM
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    tm84 liked post by SlowlyGettingWiser On thread : Long term bf has marriage phobia
    OP, YOU'RE going to have to take responsibility for this YOURSELF. So, by my reckoning, you've been with BF since you were 22-23yo. Before THAT, you were with some other BF whom you did NOT marry,...
    Liked On: 12-02-2012, 04:45 PM
    Posted On: 11-23-2012, 07:56 AM
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