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Toffer Toffer is offline

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Last Activity: Yesterday 03:52 PM

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  • About Toffer
    I am a:
    Male
    Relationship Status
    Marriage
    Length of time in current relationship:
    20-30 yrs.
    Sexual Orientation
    Heterosexual
    Location
    East Coast

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  • Last Activity: Yesterday 03:52 PM
  • Join Date: 01-31-2012

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  1. Toffer
    Toffer liked post by WorkingOnMe On thread : What is the thing you want to tell your better half about your sex life?
    Honey? Is that you?
    Liked On: Yesterday, 02:35 PM
    Posted On: 02-23-2013, 11:52 PM
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    Toffer liked post by bryanp On thread : She Keeps saying it was on mistake in 15 years
    Holy smokes Steve. She did it because she wanted to do it otherwise she would not have done it. She had her eyes on this hot stud and went for it. She also knows that she had a husband who would...
    Liked On: Yesterday, 11:44 AM
    Posted On: Yesterday, 10:56 AM
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    Toffer liked post by Tony55 On thread : She Keeps saying it was on mistake in 15 years
    Tell her to get used to it, this will take years to repair, she will "see you this way" for quite sometime. The true test in this will be how long she can put up with the new you, or how long you...
    Liked On: Yesterday, 11:44 AM
    Posted On: Yesterday, 10:50 AM
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    Toffer liked post by Shaggy On thread : She Keeps saying it was on mistake in 15 years
    She didn't make a mistake. She made a clear and deliberate choice and was very much in control of herself. When she calls it a mistake I suggest you correct her time and say "no you made a choice"
    Liked On: Yesterday, 07:31 AM
    Posted On: 05-20-2013, 04:36 PM
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    Toffer liked post by EleGirl On thread : dazed and confused
    Does your wife have a job? At this point you are right to back of and start taking care of yourself and do things for yourself. Is there any chance that she is having an affair. Since you are...
    Liked On: Yesterday, 07:13 AM
    Posted On: 05-20-2013, 11:12 PM
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    Toffer liked post by Plan 9 from OS On thread : Heat of the moment
    Isn't it a little too dangerous to worry about sex right now considering a Mexican drug cartel is after the both of you or something?
    Liked On: 05-20-2013, 12:22 PM
    Posted On: 05-17-2013, 07:10 PM
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    Toffer liked post by Shaggy On thread : Wife's past sex life vs. current sex life
    I don't have a problem when the past things were things you regret agreeing to. The problem comes when you happily would do it for some old bf, but for the guy who committed to you, you beg off...
    Liked On: 05-20-2013, 11:10 AM
    Posted On: 05-19-2013, 10:27 PM
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    Toffer liked post by Shaggy On thread : Wife's past sex life vs. current sex life
    Bottom line, many women seen to think its fine to put 110% effort into bad boy losers, but once they find a guy who will treat them well and be loyal, they drop it down to the bare minimum, while the...
    Liked On: 05-20-2013, 11:09 AM
    Posted On: 05-19-2013, 10:04 PM
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    Toffer liked post by Shaggy On thread : Wife's past sex life vs. current sex life
    This saddens me.
    Liked On: 05-20-2013, 11:09 AM
    Posted On: 05-19-2013, 10:01 PM
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    Toffer liked post by richie33 On thread : Men if your wife told you that
    Mine has to be physical touch also. My wife's sign must be a stop sign. Posted via Mobile Device
    Liked On: 05-20-2013, 08:32 AM
    Posted On: 05-18-2013, 12:51 AM
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    Toffer liked post by lewmin On thread : Wife cheated with several men, son's not mine, etc.
    Wrathful...one more thing...the OM who came to your house to reveal the affair (you know, the man you may have a drink with at some point) and continued to provide you with information, probably...
    Liked On: 05-17-2013, 07:41 AM
    Posted On: 05-17-2013, 07:25 AM
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    Toffer liked post by sandc On thread : Wife's past sex life vs. current sex life
    I would bother me. She would have to have a very good reason not to. "I just don't want to anymore." Is not a good reason. I do a lot of things I don't want to; out of love for my family.
    Liked On: 05-16-2013, 08:07 PM
    Posted On: 05-16-2013, 04:02 PM
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    Toffer liked post by SomedayDig On thread : My wife is having an emotional affair and i am ready to blow up!
    Absolutely. See, the problem is this - her "out" is that she just giggled and laughed at his comments. The reality is she loved it. She desired and craved it. And that, my man, is where the...
    Liked On: 05-15-2013, 11:02 AM
    Posted On: 05-15-2013, 09:14 AM
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    Toffer liked post by bryanp On thread : My wife is having an emotional affair and i am ready to blow up!
    If the roles were reversed she would not accept such flirting and disrespect from you so why are you accepting this from her? No consequences to her actions equals no motivation to change.
    Liked On: 05-15-2013, 11:01 AM
    Posted On: 05-15-2013, 09:07 AM
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    Toffer liked post by thatbpguy On thread : My wife is having an emotional affair and i am ready to blow up!
    You absolutely should confront her. She needs to have no further contact with him. Also, tell the OM's wife about this.
    Liked On: 05-15-2013, 11:01 AM
    Posted On: 05-15-2013, 09:07 AM
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