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Uptown liked post by soulpotato On thread : How do I talk to my wife about seeking therapy for BPD?Please remember that BPD is horrible for the person who actually HAS it, too. He/she can never cut and run to escape it. It's like a hell with no escape unless the person can make it through therapy,...Liked On: 05-21-2013, 07:00 PM
Posted On: 05-21-2013, 12:10 PM Uptown liked post by Emerald On thread : Wife doesn't treat me well and wants kids.She may be but if so, you would have to see two opposites - depression & mania. Google all of the symptoms of both for information. Re-read Uptown's post about BPD. Isn't one of the symptoms...Liked On: 05-21-2013, 06:53 PM
Posted On: 05-21-2013, 11:47 AM Uptown liked post by IsGirl3 On thread : Please Help - point me in the right directionwow, the guy above gave great advice. i know you are manipulated by her anger and it throws you every time, and it makes you cower, but that is her ace card and she uses and gets the desired...Liked On: 05-20-2013, 08:15 PM
Posted On: 05-20-2013, 07:13 AM Uptown liked post by argyle On thread : My StoryDunno. I've also seen temporary changes and dissociation under high stress - usually accompanied by transient paranoia. I could easily be wrong, but...I've also seen long-term shifts. I suspect...Liked On: 05-20-2013, 06:27 PM
Posted On: 05-20-2013, 01:47 PM Uptown liked post by Prodigal On thread : Walking on eggshellsYou are in a crappy place. I lived in that place myself for a long time. Yes, our thoughts, which shape our attitude and overall mood, are about all we can control. The thing is, I was allowing...Liked On: 05-19-2013, 08:30 PM
Posted On: 05-19-2013, 07:41 PM Uptown liked post by tryingtobebetter On thread : Was this wrong of me to do?Kittykatz I sympathise with you as I was very shy when younger. If it helps at all, it does seem to be something which gets less of a problem with time. Sometimes it's good to get older! You...Liked On: 05-18-2013, 05:21 PM
Posted On: 05-16-2013, 03:09 PM Uptown liked post by Headspin On thread : After the Lies - their connection fully revealedI'll not bother with the points in all of that (although astonishingly eerily reflective of my own stbxw) simply all that means is it's your fault - blah blah blah but I will say this - you're...Liked On: 05-18-2013, 05:12 PM
Posted On: 05-13-2013, 05:08 PM Uptown liked post by Hortensia On thread : A letter for the WaywardIt is all beautiful, but there's too much negativity with all those "I hate". I know you guys have been hurt, but nurturing bad feelings and focusing so much on the wrongs will only attract more pain...Liked On: 05-18-2013, 04:45 PM
Posted On: 05-07-2013, 08:42 PM Uptown liked post by KathyBatesel On thread : My marriage feels like a constant power struggleWow, there's a lot of ground to cover here. I hope I catch you before you start your long letter, though. Before you write it, let me ask you - how does he usually respond to these letters? I've...Liked On: 05-18-2013, 04:25 PM
Posted On: 05-17-2013, 01:20 PM Uptown liked post by Waking up to life On thread : Waking up to life's updateIn everything I've read about announcing divorce, they say it's best to state it and not go into details as to WHY you're divorcing. For every reason you give, it gives the partner an opportunity to...Liked On: 05-18-2013, 10:29 AM
Posted On: 05-18-2013, 09:45 AM Uptown liked post by Ceegee On thread : 1 Bedroom ApartmentSo, after reading posts on TAM for about a year now, I've finally decided to post my own story. It's probably long over due, but I guess I'm just looking to vent and get some support rather than...Liked On: 05-18-2013, 10:18 AM
Posted On: 10-29-2012, 11:34 PM Uptown liked post by Ceegee On thread : Time To ReGroup and Move OnPer Uptown: "Of the ten personality disorders, BPD is the ONLY ONE that is notorious for making a large share of the nonBPD partners start questioning their own sanity." One week I'm sitting in...Liked On: 05-18-2013, 10:13 AM
Posted On: 05-10-2013, 12:18 PM Uptown liked post by Prodigal On thread : In major need of adviceWhile this works in many cases, she is dealing with an alcoholic. His name is on the title/mortgage to the house, from my understanding. He's not moving anywhere. Setting up rules? With an...Liked On: 05-18-2013, 09:01 AM
Posted On: 05-17-2013, 07:07 PM Uptown liked post by Prodigal On thread : New here, my wife is wearing my patience thin.Okay, we don't need a novel that will rival War And Peace, but a few more details will suffice. Your anger is coming right through my computer screen. Your first paragraph is circuitous. Do you...Liked On: 05-17-2013, 09:11 PM
Posted On: 05-17-2013, 08:40 PM Uptown liked post by 3Xnocharm On thread : Walking on eggshellsWow, he is playing the victim here big time. I think you are going to have to just go kinda cold here, and let everything he says just roll off your back. YOU know how things really are, you have...Liked On: 05-17-2013, 08:03 PM
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