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Waking up to life liked post by Uptown On thread : Waking up to life's updateWaking, best of luck tomorrow! Our thoughts and prayers will be with you.Liked On: Today, 06:53 PM
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Emerald liked post by Uptown On thread : Wife doesn't treat me well and wants kids.OTS, I agree with NotPerfect (post #28) and 3xNoCharm (post #17) that you are describing typical symptoms of BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder), which my exW has.Actually, they seem to match up...Liked On: 05-21-2013, 11:30 AM
Posted On: 05-02-2013, 10:17 PM Waking up to life liked post by Uptown On thread : Waking up to life's updateWell, we will at least be there with you in spirit, Waking!Liked On: 05-19-2013, 02:38 PM
Posted On: 05-19-2013, 02:24 PM
moxy liked post by Uptown On thread : Walking on eggshellsPerhaps so, MsStacy, but you seem to be describing the reverse: a man who does black-white thinking nearly all the time when it comes to his interpersonal relationships with others. If so, the B-W...Liked On: 05-18-2013, 11:28 PM
Posted On: 05-06-2013, 07:26 PM Waking up to life liked post by Uptown On thread : Waking up to life's updateYes, please consider doing that. That way, you could each go your own way -- with you going to the apartment -- following the meeting.Liked On: 05-18-2013, 10:39 PM
Posted On: 05-18-2013, 10:36 PM tom67 liked post by Uptown On thread : New here, my wife is wearing my patience thin.Joe, like Prodigal and IsGirl3, I am left wondering why in the world you've been staying with this abusive, mean-spirited woman for 7 years? You don't say one good thing about her. You say she...Liked On: 05-17-2013, 10:48 PM
Posted On: 05-17-2013, 09:26 PM
Franz liked post by Uptown On thread : Conflicted, Confused and Crushed.....this is a long oneMike, thanks for giving us an update on your situation with you GF and 2-year-old daughter. I was beginning to wonder how you are doing.I'm so glad to hear that you finally filed a police report on...Liked On: 05-17-2013, 07:43 PM
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soulpotato liked post by Uptown On thread : My StoryPerhaps so, Argyle. As you know, most folks having strong traits of one PD also have strong traits of one or two others. A recent study found that 37% of NPDers have full blown BPD and 39% of...Liked On: 05-17-2013, 07:34 PM
Posted On: 05-17-2013, 07:23 PM Waking up to life liked post by Uptown On thread : Walking on eggshellsMsStacy, I'm sorry to hear that the MC is not going well. I am not surprised, however. If your H has strong BPD traits, his issues go far beyond the lack of communication skills that MCs teach. My...Liked On: 05-15-2013, 10:15 PM
Posted On: 05-15-2013, 06:44 PM Waking up to life liked post by Uptown On thread : Walking on eggshellsIf he has strong BPD traits, yes. Granted, there are a few high functioning BPDers who have the self awareness and ego strength needed to confront their issues and work hard on them. For those...Liked On: 05-15-2013, 10:14 PM
Posted On: 05-15-2013, 10:01 PM
diwali123 liked post by Uptown On thread : Walking on eggshellsMsStacy, I'm sorry to hear that the MC is not going well. I am not surprised, however. If your H has strong BPD traits, his issues go far beyond the lack of communication skills that MCs teach. My...Liked On: 05-15-2013, 07:02 PM
Posted On: 05-15-2013, 06:44 PM
Hortensia liked post by Uptown On thread : My husband says he hates me.Mommy, actually, there is a LOT you can do. As an initial matter, if you suspect your H has strong BPD traits, I recommend that you NOT tell him. If he is a BPDer, he almost certainly will...Liked On: 05-14-2013, 04:19 PM
Posted On: 05-10-2013, 07:09 PM Headspin liked post by Uptown On thread : How do I talk to my wife about seeking therapy for BPD?Shutter, I agree with the advice given to you by the other respondents. As an initial matter, I believe MC likely would be a total waste of time if your W is a BPDer (i.e., has most BPD traits at a...Liked On: 05-13-2013, 06:43 PM
Posted On: 05-06-2013, 09:09 PM AFwifey liked post by Uptown On thread : My husband says he hates me.Mommy, actually, there is a LOT you can do. As an initial matter, if you suspect your H has strong BPD traits, I recommend that you NOT tell him. If he is a BPDer, he almost certainly will...Liked On: 05-12-2013, 11:48 PM
Posted On: 05-10-2013, 07:09 PM tryingtobebetter liked post by Uptown On thread : We argued and he wants nothing to do with meWell, anything is possible, Startermom. But it seems very unlikely -- if your H were actually psychotic -- that you would come here complaining that he misinterpreted your reaction to his joke about...Liked On: 05-11-2013, 06:42 AM
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