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WillK

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Last Activity: 05-29-2013 10:46 PM

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About WillK

I am a:

Male

Relationship Status

Marriage

Length of time in current relationship:

8-12 yrs.

Sexual Orientation

Heterosexual

Location

Michigan (USA)

Occupation

Engineer
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The thread linked below is about as close as I get to my story, it has my posts about the point where I turned my marriage around and on the day my wife was planning to move out, instead we started a new beginning. I've been keeping my updates in this thead as well:
http://talkaboutmarriage.com/general...-sex-life.html

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Last Activity: 05-29-2013 10:46 PM
Join Date: 05-16-2012

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GetTough liked post by WillK On thread : Need Help From Former "Nice Guys" Who Became Better Men

Be a man, remind yourself that she feels special, but so would any woman that got close to you - and if they appreciated you for the man you can and will be, that would feel even more special....
Liked On: 06-28-2012, 05:44 PM
Posted On: 06-28-2012, 09:11 AM
KanDo liked post by WillK On thread : I don't know what to believe. Another emotional affair case:

Don't be so afraid of asking. This is your wife. What she does when you're not around isn't supposed to be secret. You'd responded in my thread as your first post, this other guy my wife was...
Liked On: 06-27-2012, 01:25 PM
Posted On: 06-27-2012, 11:45 AM
iheartlife liked post by WillK On thread : I don't know what to believe. Another emotional affair case:

Don't be so afraid of asking. This is your wife. What she does when you're not around isn't supposed to be secret. You'd responded in my thread as your first post, this other guy my wife was...
Liked On: 06-27-2012, 11:52 AM
Posted On: 06-27-2012, 11:45 AM
Unsure in Seattle liked post by WillK On thread : I could do with an outside view on this please.

Ya know... I don't get why it's necessary to sneak away her phone to check it out. Ask, or better yet tell her, that you need to be able to look at her phone to re-establish trust. There shouldn't be...
Liked On: 06-26-2012, 08:29 AM
Posted On: 06-25-2012, 04:55 PM
MattMatt liked post by WillK On thread : I could do with an outside view on this please.

I'm gonna speak out of both sides of my mouth. On one side, I think a number of us are telling you, fuserleer, that it sounds as though you're giving her too much control when you should be in...
Liked On: 06-25-2012, 05:17 PM
Posted On: 06-25-2012, 09:25 AM
frootloop liked post by WillK On thread : ? for Husbands (esp with LD wives)

I dunno. I think a lot of the other posters are being a bit hard on this woman. Hormones drive the libido and she is physiologically disabled. Would you criticize a blind man for not reading? The...
Liked On: 06-24-2012, 04:52 PM
Posted On: 06-23-2012, 09:48 PM
oubliette liked post by WillK On thread : ? for Husbands (esp with LD wives)

I dunno. I think a lot of the other posters are being a bit hard on this woman. Hormones drive the libido and she is physiologically disabled. Would you criticize a blind man for not reading? The...
Liked On: 06-24-2012, 01:58 PM
Posted On: 06-23-2012, 09:48 PM
RClawson liked post by WillK On thread : ? for Husbands (esp with LD wives)

I dunno. I think a lot of the other posters are being a bit hard on this woman. Hormones drive the libido and she is physiologically disabled. Would you criticize a blind man for not reading? The...
Liked On: 06-23-2012, 10:38 PM
Posted On: 06-23-2012, 09:48 PM
GetTough liked post by WillK On thread : How Do I Let Go Enough To Fix My Marriage?

The nice guy routine is not working. I'll make this short. Please respond. Have you or have you not yet read Mallrried Man's Sex Life? The question is a bit rhetorical, I doubt you have because you...
Liked On: 06-23-2012, 07:35 PM
Posted On: 06-17-2012, 08:37 AM
warlock07 liked post by WillK On thread : I could do with an outside view on this please.

I continue to be in a state of not understanding or agreeing with the physical distance in a reconciliation. I'm the kind of guy that would try to save a marriage, and I was on your side when you...
Liked On: 06-23-2012, 03:18 PM
Posted On: 06-23-2012, 02:04 PM
livelaughlovenow liked post by WillK On thread : For the guys?

I wish I had time to say more, so in brief it sounds like you and I have some similarities in how we think, and as such I'd offer you the comfort of knowing we get things worked out and I'm sure you...
Liked On: 06-22-2012, 10:17 AM
Posted On: 06-22-2012, 10:02 AM
MattMatt liked post by WillK On thread : I could do with an outside view on this please.

For clarity, I reiterate: this is the problem. You have been together long enough. Stop doing what she wants to do, make the choices yourself and you should know enough by now to make your own...
Liked On: 06-21-2012, 06:03 PM
Posted On: 06-12-2012, 12:02 PM
MattMatt liked post by WillK On thread : I could do with an outside view on this please.

With all due respect, I think it's possible you're misreading her. What if she's indirectly sending you the message that she NEEDS you to make everything right? About 1 month ago I started posting...
Liked On: 06-21-2012, 06:03 PM
Posted On: 06-12-2012, 11:56 AM
MattMatt liked post by WillK On thread : I could do with an outside view on this please.

Has she not had grief counselling for the miscarriages? Do that definitely if not already, and if she did it sounds like it's still needed anywhere. Probably good if you can be involved. She probably...
Liked On: 06-21-2012, 06:00 PM
Posted On: 06-11-2012, 02:43 PM
MattMatt liked post by WillK On thread : I could do with an outside view on this please.

So let's think about this like we didn't have civilization or words or whatever.. You're a caveman and she's your cavewoman, some other dude wants her to be his cavewoman. Your cavewoman is happy...
Liked On: 06-21-2012, 05:54 PM
Posted On: 06-11-2012, 10:02 AM

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