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07-26-2007, 10:10 PM
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Serious problems
Ok heres the deal, Im in a relationship which kinda sucks its been going on for 3 1/2 months and my girlfriend and I do absolutly nothing toghter. I am starting really fall for this other girl who just so happens to be my best friends girlfriend but I dont even think he is serious about his relationship but knowing him he would still be really pissed if I flirted with his girlfriend what am I supposed to do?
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07-26-2007, 10:16 PM
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will someone please give me some help?
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07-29-2007, 07:50 PM
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Dude, stay away from her. You're asking for trouble.
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07-31-2007, 10:09 AM
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Re: Serious problems
I think the right thing is, if you feel your relationship is over, end you current relationship and find your own women. Friends, good friends, are hard to come by, so don't do anything to hurt that. I, myself, wouldn't do that to my worst friend or enemy. It's called doing the right thing, so be a man and do the right thing. Stop wasting your girlfriends and your own time, and move on.
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09-18-2007, 11:31 AM
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Re: Serious problems
Listen to these men. If he is a true freind he will be there for you when you need him......BUT WHATEVER YOU DO, Dont go after his girlfriend. You WILL loose your best friend. It is inevitable. You may also consider that she is attractive to you becasue your emotional needs in your relationship are not being met. Like the grass is greener feeling. Try starting there to find happiness.
Last edited by hotpepper1979 : 09-18-2007 at 11:32 AM.
Reason: spelling
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09-21-2007, 11:57 AM
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Re: Serious problems
True love is way harder to find than true friendship.
And from what you say about your friend, it reminds me of what Margaret Anderson once said: "In real love you want the other person's good. In romantic love you want the other person."
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05-11-2008, 03:09 PM
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Re: Serious problems
Oh Man! You should feel like a total butt for even thinking of going there! Lol.
Dump your girlfriend and go out...um, without your best friend.
Seriously, it's not worth it. You say you don't think she's serious about the relationship she has with your best friend, um, if you were any kind of friend you would let him know he's wasting time...instead of considering her for your girlfriend!
Maybe you guys should both dump your girlfriends and go out!
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05-11-2008, 08:33 PM
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Re: Serious problems
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Originally Posted by Lovinblind
I think the right thing is, if you feel your relationship is over, end you current relationship and find your own women. Friends, good friends, are hard to come by, so don't do anything to hurt that. I, myself, wouldn't do that to my worst friend or enemy. It's called doing the right thing, so be a man and do the right thing. Stop wasting your girlfriends and your own time, and move on.
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Well said
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05-14-2008, 08:08 AM
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Re: Serious problems
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Originally Posted by Chris H.
Dude, stay away from her. You're asking for trouble.
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