Re: Why isn't my husband interested in sex?
I'll try to give you my perspective as a male who has gone through this. My wife and I have been married over 30 years. She is the one who usually initiates sex. For years I've been focused on my job, which has caused it's own set of issues, one of which is to leave me mentally and physically exhausted at the end of the day. Throw in the fact that I used to "decompress" with a few drinks at the end of the day and bingo, no sex drive. It was far easier to just relax at the end of the day than initiate sex. Well, when I gave up alcohol just about a year ago, I thought my sex drive would return. Nope. Work was still a constant stress in my life. Also found out my T levels were very low. I'm now on hormone replacement therapy. I think it's helping, but we're in the early stages. It is hard for men to talk about this. If you can't get him to talk, maybe he'd put his thoughts in writing (I posted on this in another thread). Good luck.