Morgoth

Lie detecter test's dont actualy work,you would all know this if you noticed that both in the states,uk & all other countrys there not ammisable in a court of law.
Also if anyone watches the UK program QI,they tell you a number of way's as to how to fool these things.

w.s.winstonsarah

Reguardless of what went on in the marriage you should have never take the path you took.

w.s.winstonsarah

Shazzam!!!

That was good!!!!

Bloodymary

If I thought for one second my husband was being unfaithful...I would snoop until I found out what was happening...and then make my choices. You ask so much of us...and all we expect is that you uphold your vows. When you don't that gives us permission to find out WFT is going on.

OneMarriedGuy

While the argument about lie detectors goes on I think the answer is here. Come clean with her, tell her the truth, then a lie detector will not be needed.

As is your marriage will not last so the only way to give it that possibility is to come clean, be honest, accept responsibility and take the crap for what you did.

now back top regularly scheduled programming.... let me get my popcorn so I can watch the rest of the lie detector show (dang this is not going to be good for my diet )

MRB

Just fess up to EVERYTHING before the test. Then take the test. She needs to deal with the whole truth before she can get over it. Otherwise things will never get better. Hopefully you have resolved to stop cheating though or else it's all in vain.