06-04-2010, 07:58 AM
Join Date: Jun 2010
| | Re: Need advice from a husband...please
Hey JLH3. I am a wife (been on here before but not as an active member, really) and my situation (except for the child and the background, but the verbal abuse, the disrespect, the roller coaster up and down, the nastiness, the rockiness, the length of time we've been married even, is all the same. So I need to ask, if I may, did you do something to betray your husband's trust, like lie about a major thing, cheat on him at some point, anything like that? I dont care what others on this forum think or say and neither should you but I would to know, if you dont mind answering.
The reason I ask, is because I 'cheated' on my husband before we were married. I say 'cheated' because I feel - not justified exactly - but more like excused given the circumstances. The details are lo-oong and I wont go into them at this stage but he told me this morning that 'the knowledge' is slowly killing him and he cant live like this any more'.
If you want to PM me feel free. God knows I need a friend or two right now.