11-18-2011, 08:45 AM
Join Date: Aug 2011
| | Re: i cheated on my wife.
Originally Posted by annagarret
If anyone on this site says that they never cheated, even in their mind, they are lying.
That's a pile of cr@p. Speaking for myself, I absolutely have never cheated, even "in my mind." Please keep the generalizations about others on the site to yourself!
You are a very brave man and a great dad and husband.
Yeah, he's a great dad and husband, he cheated on his wife and not only that, it took her discovering it and calling him on it to get him to stop.
To the OP, you screwed up. Terribly. Own what you did, approach your wife for forgiveness but don't expect it. She doesn't "have to" forgive you. It's very difficult to rebuild trust after infidelity. Maybe not impossible, but getting back to pre-cheating trust is a massive achievement for those who manage it. Most don't. You may need to cut your losses (wife, daughter) and go out on your own and do whatever it is (fun) that you feel you have not done. If you got married too early, that's your mistake, and you need to take responsibility for it.