Re: attracted to wife's friend
You're going through what's called an affair fog. The instant you start thinking of another person as a potential match, you denigrate your own marriage: it was never good, we're really just friends, there was never a spark.
DO NOT LISTEN to yourself right now regarding your marriage. Your subconscious is lying to you, to justify lusting for this woman.
Read some other threads about how badly their lives were messed up because they went down that road.
And finally, FIX YOUR MARRIAGE!
Go to marriagebuilders.com and print out two copies of the Love Buster and Emotional Needs questionnaires. Ask your wife to fill them out with you. LEARN about her; get to know her all over again. If you stop your LBs and meet her ENs, I guarantee, she will reciprocate and you'll end up with the most affectionate, lustful wife you ever imagined.