Okay, you came to me and asked for my help
First I am going to tell you, tell you this
"ThinkToMuch" he is always bringing up about people losing weight, being fat, doing things wrong... (Which did not this time to you though- but does with a lot...So does Cherrypie18)You are not doing anything wrong, do not worry on that part. You, are not fat so there is not any need to worry on that part... Yes, their are men out here who, do get overly tired and are not really able to make love with us like they should be doing...
Yes, you can be over worked, they could have
Depression going on in their lives; they could be sick, could be meds that they are taking- it really could be anything. I know though as a Female; myself that we do blame ourselves on these things; we feel as we are doing something wrong when things just do not seem the same as before... You are saying about your husband only making love once a month with you. Well, I would have to say- THAT IS HARD.
That right there was something that I put
Up with for so many years. But also my husband he was on meds that made him that way though. He use too back when we were dating a first married he use to always do four play with me. Now, days he will not no longer go down on me and has not done so in many of years. I did bring it up him though today; before our love making started. Cause he still does have a hard time getting it- those pills really messed him up. Anyway, he said to me "I will play with you instead" I was hurt but did not let it show. I then talked with him after we were done making love and I let him know on how I wish he would still do those things with me.
Your best bet though is to talk with
Your husband; find out the reasoning on why, the love making just is not the same why, he will not make love with you more often than he has been doing. Ask him also if he is depressed about anything; see, if there is anything you are able to do where you can help him over come being depressed...
I would not point the finger though
Do not just jump and think he is cheating on you; most likely it is not that at all... Show him you love him; let him know "No matter what it is my love- I am here for you" Also if you have not already done so- dress even more sexier than you have been doing for him. Make you love making into games, he most likely has been waiting to try something new with you; which has come up to you in ways with him telling you, But you just are not aware of what it is he really wants. Okay, I pretty much told you here on what I was feeling and also seeing. Good luck
PS: I KNOW HE HAS CHEATED MANY OF TIMES IN THE PAST- BUT THIS TIME HE IS NOT