What Kills a Man's Sex Drive?

getting20 · 10-28-2010, 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by JustAGirl

Who? Me?

Yup you.

getting20 · 10-28-2010, 12:03 PM

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Originally Posted by JustAGirl

lol you say that NOW!

Next, I'll hear the all too familiar, "Get off me!"
LOL j/k

Nah, not really. Was just kidding. Just wanna be your friend. I'm a newbie at this forum.

What country you from?

getting20 · 10-28-2010, 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by JustAGirl

I was kidding too!
I'm from the USA...where you from?

I'm from Singapore. By is that your real picture?

getting20 · 10-28-2010, 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted by JustAGirl

Yep...that's me!

WOW, you are beautiful. Nice meeting you. How old are you if you don't mind?

nice777guy · 10-28-2010, 01:15 PM

Get a room guys!!!

seeking sanity · 10-28-2010, 04:29 PM

Getting20 and JustAGirl, this is a MARRIAGE forum, not a place to start flirting. Go spend some time on the infidelity forum and see where that kind of bs will land you.

getting20 · 10-28-2010, 10:09 PM

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Originally Posted by seeking sanity

Getting20 and JustAGirl, this is a MARRIAGE forum, not a place to start flirting. Go spend some time on the infidelity forum and see where that kind of bs will land you.

Sorry guys. Won't happen again. Just wanted to meet more people.

kendra2705 · 10-31-2010, 05:26 PM

I wish I knew , it's certainly not me as it was gone before we got started , he used his ex wife as an excuse that it had gone as she had put him off with her aggressive ways generaly, he hated her, 4 years down the road and still no sex drive , no matter what I did ,(and I say did because I have now given up) , nothing, prob 4 times in 4 years to be honest. I think writing this is therepy for me as it is me who is bothered about it not him ,

When it's gone it's gone in our case and we have to spend the next whatever years never doing it again.

JustAGirl · 11-01-2010, 10:13 AM

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Originally Posted by nice777guy

Get a room guys!!!

LOL

JustAGirl · 11-01-2010, 10:17 AM

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Originally Posted by seeking sanity

Getting20 and JustAGirl, this is a MARRIAGE forum, not a place to start flirting. Go spend some time on the infidelity forum and see where that kind of bs will land you.

I have an idea....why don't you just not read this and YOU can go there....damn, Halloween is over, you can pull your broom out of your *&%$

sheesh

KEYWORD ::forum:: - look it up

MarriedWifeInLove · 11-03-2010, 08:37 AM

I would guess too needy. Which is exactly what I am right now - but, in my defense - I wouldn't be as needy if I was getting some affection, intimacy and sex on a regular basis.

MsLonely · 11-03-2010, 08:47 AM

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Originally Posted by nice777guy

So many threads around here about women complaining that they don't have enough sex.

And yet "generally" men are supposed to be the hornier of the two genders.

What is it that turns a man off sexually?

I guess I could understand a woman being turned off by a selfish "one pump chump." But men - we're too easy. Barring any health problems, we are almost guaranteed to have an orgasm no matter how bad or inept our lover may be.

How does something that feels so fantastic come to be viewed almost as just another chore for some of us?

What kills a man's sex drive:

I'm a rational woman

1. tireness
2. too much alcohol
3. lack of testosterone
4. stress
5. unplesant woman

Lorraine M · 07-11-2011, 09:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Conrad

It doesn't - until they receive the message that they don't matter.

Then, the passive aggressive side starts to seek revenge on the one neglecting them.

The withdrawal of romance/affection leads directly to a shut-down of sex.

You all have really good points...the weight,,nagging kids first, guys do need a little romance but I didn't see anyone enter age and stres into the discussion. My husband, if he wanted it badly enough before his little "break" would/could do it whenever, but when he was stressed and knew I was busy, tired, overworked, would start taking care of business on his own during the day to help relieve stress. Now, granted I was told that as a lead up to his mental episode you can become hypersexual but that would make me think several times a day.

After sexting him once about how long it's been, miss him, etc... trying to turn him on, he admitted that the noise in the house, the homework, sports travel for child, mind wouldn't stop working thanks to work, it just got easier. Food for thought.