"I'm a Nice Guy, the nicest guy you'd ever want to meet. Why doesn't she want me?"
All of the following links address an array of questions that pertain to men changing their behavior with a goal of improving how they are perceived by their partners and themselves.
If you are in a sex starved relationship, if you can't understand why your woman is pulling away despite the fact that you hold her up on a pedestal and do everything in your power to please her and make her happy, then odds are that you will either see yourself and your relationship in these threads, or you will find information that will be useful in attempting to recover it.
While recognizing that there are any number of ways that our relationships fail, these particular topics are geared towards recovering a sense of health and balance within ourselves and our failing marriages and relationships.
Feel free to recommend other appropriate threads and we can add them to the list.
None of the information here is intended to address significant emotional disorders, such as anxiety, depression, addiction or other mental illness. Please seek professional help if you suspect that any of these are a factor in your relationship. General Relationship Discussion - What's Attractive ... My Wife's Input The Ladies Lounge - Beta V Alpha Mens Clubhouse - The Thermostat: the ultimate barometer of your relationship Men's Clubhouse - What I've learned in the past year, a good news story General Relationship Discussion - Boundaries for Men Mens Clubhouhouse - Fitness Tests Mens Clubhouse - Does Your Wife Ever Initiate Sex? Mens Clubhouse - Wife Denies ... I Don't Buy
is just one story detailing the arc of infidelity and the common emotions and behaviors associated. Mens Clubhouse - Manly Ways to Work on Yourself Mens Clubhouse - Modern Men Sex in Marriage - Husbands who are not Dominate enough & Wives who are - how to reverse roles? Sex in Marriage - Wife Doesn't Like Sex? The Mens Clubhouse - What Advice to Tell My Sons About Marriage Mens Clubhouse - Nice Guys and Other Types Mens Clubhouse - Man Up Books Ladies Lounge - Do Women Want a Dominant Man? Ladies Lounge - Dominance Mens Clubhouse - How About Them Apples? General Relationship Discussion - Elle Magazine on Sexless Marriages
Still don't know if you're a Nice Guy, but your wife left you, or your date hasn't returned your calls and your home reading the forum?
So how do we know that the stigma of being a nice guy is real or has any validity whatsoever? Easy. It's on Wikipedia so it must be true ... Wikipedia - Nice Guy Why Nice Guys Finish Last - David D'Angelo of AskMen.com Why Nice Guys Finish Last - April Massini
Perspective from a woman If and Why Nice Guys Finish Last
And I couldn't resist ... Nice Guys Finish Last - Green Day Reading List
No More Mr. Nice Guy - Robert Glover
Hold Onto Your N.U.T.S - Wayne Levine
Being the Strong Man A Woman Wants - Elliott Katz
The Way of the Superior Man - David Deida
Models - Mark Manson
Get Inside Her - Marni Kinrys (Dating for men, written by a woman)
How to Win Friends & Influence People - Dale Carnegie
Awareness - Anthony De Mello
His Needs Her Needs - Willard Harley
Hold Me Tight - Sue Johnson
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work - John Gottman