Re: Calling all MEN! I need your help!
I want to save my marriage. I do not want a divorce. I'm willing to take the steps necessary. But I don't know how and I want to learn! I have never tried the approach that Conrad is suggesting. My guess is, she would think very hard about the way she treated me. I will be trying it the next chance I get! I know it is baby steps but I see this kind of behavior from her every day. I try harder to be nicer, so that she will recipicate that, which she does not. I make the bed everyday, I make the coffee every day. I try very hard to pick up, help out, all why working all day long. I know that for me to stand up to her would be very different, but I think it has to be a positive step towards a healthy relationship.