2. Second ear piercing on the lobe
3. Upper ear piercing
5. Cheek (I say this is less trashy than a nose ring because it's more unique and interesting but it really depends on the area of the country you're in)
7. Bull-style nose ring
8. Eyebrow/lip/20 more upper ear piercings
Not ranked: piercings that only a significant other will see--these are actually tasteful and attractive as long as you don't go pulling up your shirt or pulling down your pants to show strangers every chance you get.
Tattoos in order of increasing trampy-ness:
2. Ankle, shoulder, upper back, side of the ribcage where it's hard to see, foot
3. Arms, neck, behind the ear
5. Lower back
6. Inner thighs
Extra tramp points for: anything motorcycle-related, skulls, weird dragons, curse words, and the infamous "tramp stamp" (the wide tattoo that spans the whole of the lower back)
Extra classiness for: bible verses, Chinese characters, symmetric "artistic" symbols
With tattoos, the smaller the classier.
Edit: trampy is not necessarily a bad thing; it depends on personal preference. Not everyone wants their wife/girlfriend wearing halters and belly shirts to a fancy restaurant, but they don't want her wearing ankle-length curtains either. Same goes for tattoos/piercings; it just depends.
I guess I'm just old school.
I think piercings in the ears are fine. The navel, it depends on the girl and the piercing. Any other body part? never. I think that they are very unattractive.
Tatoos at all on women are unattractive. I call them "tramp stamps".
I have none (other than a single piercing in my ears), and I think tattoo's are gross (no offense to anyone that has any please).
I've never been attracted to, or enjoyed a man with tattoo's. An ear piercing wouldn't bother me at all but once, when my son wanted to get his ear pierced, my husband said "if he gets his ear pierced, someone is moving out and it's not me." He is very opposed to men getting their ears pierced, never has said why - must be that macho retired military man in him.
But, I've been toying with the idea of getting my nipples pierced - don't know why, but I'm seriously thinking of it and a small stud in my nose - hubby might have a heart attack (I think he likes the nipples idea, he has a picture of a gal with hers pierced as a screen saver on his computer).
I love piercings and tats! But in moderation - they have to be done tastefully -- no big bull rings or anything like that. That said I have 5 piercings in one ear and 2 in the other and 2 tattoos -- one on my ankle and one on my upper back. My husband just got his first tat when I got my second and I love his!
I wouldn't be too crazy about him getting anything pierced, except maybe an eyebrow - I like that on guys, but still I think on him it wouldn't look right. Some piercings and tattoos look good on some people and whereas the same piercing/tat on another person would look really out of place.
I want my nose pierced - I think a tiny little diamond/crystal nose stud is really hot - but my husband hates them so no nose piercing for me.
He does want me to get my clit pierced (a VCH) thought. And I'm not against the idea I haven't done it yet simply because it takes a few weeks to heal and you have to be abstinent while it heals (UGH! )
I honestly don't care what people think, it's my body and I'll do what I want to it, If people are going to be shallow/small minded enough to judge and label me by my "cover" (ie. my piercings and tats) then they are doing me a favour as they are probably not worth knowing and I wouldn't want to waste any of my time on them.
I think a lot of people feel intimidated by people that have tats and piercings, but at the end of the day that is their problem not mine, that does not make me a tramp/rough, or whatever!!, Far from it.
I'm not intimidated by people with tats and piercings, I just personally don't find it attractive. And, I think a lot of young people end up regretting certain tats when they get older and, have you seen some tats as your skin ages? An anchor could wind up looking like your middle finger in your 70s and 80s.
More power to you if they turn you on and you like them - different strokes, right?