Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: USA All the Way
Re: The thermostat - the ultimate barometer of your R
Mem's original post caught me off guard. I could see so much truth in it (I'm the hot one, and do see value in backing off because to not do so can be overwhelming to the recipient).
But then, as I read the thread, it seems highly manipulative. One red flag are the thoughts on housework. One doesn't do it, and the other doesn't do it either, so what do you end up with...a huge mess? bugs? hoarding? And neither moving to a solution because they are being too stubborn?
The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.
And that lawn has to be tended, too.
Grieving? Where are you: Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression or Acceptance?