Re: advice from men needed
We've gone twice before for about three sessions each and I've gone once by myself. Last year after a similar situation I insisted he go by himself. I had come to believe he has an actual diagnosable psychiatric condition --and not just depression. One day he came home from counseling and said "I think I identified something from my past that might make it unfair to you for me to be in a relationship with you, but I'm not ready to talk about it now." I kind of referred to it over the last year,but didn't want to force the issue out of respect. His behavior has been somewhat better since. But after this last fight I told him it was time I knew more and he said he couldn't recall what I was even talking about!!