Re: EA already moving towards PA!
Updates... W had a major meltdown last night and said she wanted to separate. She was ready to move out, but the only problem is that we don't have enough money for her to move anywhere so she said she'd sleep in her office downstairs for a while. Guess what, this morning she didn't like that and wants to move back upstairs!
I have my finger on the trigger for the nuclear option. I'm ready to expose this whole thing to the other man's wife, the funny thing is that monitoring their emails the had a break up three days ago and haven't communicated since (as far as I can tell). He's concerned it's getting too hot and she wants her space from him! Go figure!
While I wouldn't say she is engaged, she is pleasant to be around today and pretty chatty, if sleepy from sleeping on her couch downstairs! Ha!
Counselor knew about affair for maybe a month or so before she told me about it. It was so stupid of me last week when she told me to just roll over and not do anything because she really tried to escalate it with the OM right after she talked to me. Telling me must've given her approval to move forward with a bigger affair.
I have a meeting with counselor on Tuesday and I am going to ask him point blank how he is going to help me end this affair. If I don't get an adequate response from him, I'm going straight to this guys wife... I'm really done with this now. It's really gotten stupid. I have a business, kids and house that really don't need this BS going on. Thanks for all your help. I take everything you all say seriously but need to weigh my options before I pull the trigger... (I know, I know I should've done it last week but really does another day or two hurt?)