02-23-2011, 08:30 PM
Join Date: Feb 2011
| | Re: How to Man Up with pregnancy and depression
Shes' blaming your mum? what is your mum doing? you are saying her comments about your mum are fair, so why then are you allowing your mom to come into the private relationship between you are your wife? Your mom should know you love her, but that your family has to come first.
Are you putting her first? are you doing your fair share around the house and with your young child? Nothing breeds resentment quicker then feeling like a slave.
Are you actively showing her that you appreciate what she does? Are you doing nice things for her and making her feel attractive.
If you are doing all the above, and shes unwell, keep supporting her and doing the right thing, but don't allow yourself to be treated badly either.