After that? John Wayne Bobbitt and won't be because somebody actually cut it off.
He will want to do that most likely.
NOT he's a man he will not part with his manhood, no matter how much agony he is in. Besides It will be better than ever, it got a chemical peel - very slowly and incrementally. What would you call a chemical peel for the P,
He went away, poor baby.
Well got to go but I will come back and see if he can use the keyboard in his dazed and weakened state. I n the meantime I will say a prayer........ for his wife.
This is good, real good. I cant wait to read what he thinks after he recovers, if his brain's not fried, after all, she is f**king them out. Perhaps I will say a prayer after all....... just less fervent than the one for his wife.
My "guess" she isn't angry. Not really. She is simply determined to break this pattern. And I believe that she thinks this is the best way to break "my" pattern. I actually think she is right. I am NOT enjoying being the LD spouse.
MEM, if this situation continues for some time I'd be really interested in knowing how a man deals psychologically and emotionally with the tables turned. That is, him now being the LD spouse and if/whether this realization does or doesn't additionally influence a man's, uh, performance.
On second thought MEM, can you just PM me the name of your local hospital. I will see if they are part of a for profit conglomerate and therefore public. I need to diversify into healthcare a bit more. **Wink**
It is easy for us to give, we just need to open our legs, but they have to thrust and pump, it is a lot of work for them!
Just wish all women on TAM know about this and do what MEM's wife is doing, Yeah...........................awesome, tire them out........................
Reaching,
When I was in college folks would pay you to participate in their clinical drug trials. Looks like I may be forced to be an unpaid lab rat in this table turning HD/LD process.
Normally if I have a "critical systems failure" during connection I feel like a loser. Luckily that has only happened a handful of times in our 21 years of play.
In this case - I am being pushed way beyond my design tolerance so if that should happen I am just going to say "Sorry I am doing the best that I can and am more than happy to slide down and .....". As for how I will feel. Perfectly fine. It would be like you asking me to run a 5 minute mile - I EXPECT to fail.
I NEVER expected her to design a tactic this devilishly clever. To do so and then blitz me with it. Brilliant.
That said I have offered to surrender several times. I have asked for terms. I have offered unconditional surrender. She is having none of it. For now I will sweat.
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Originally Posted by reachingshore
MEM, if this situation continues for some time I'd be really interested in knowing how a man deals psychologically and emotionally with the tables turned. That is, him now being the LD spouse and if/whether this realization does or doesn't additionally influence a man's, uh, performance.
Brennan,
OK - so the performance anxiety is real. I think I am contradicting what I just posted a moment ago so I will clarify. If I have a performance "problem" in the near future I KNOW what that part of the mirror looks like. She is going to do some version of "Are you not attracted to me anymore"? Which is something that I may have said to her, here and there in the past. I was provoked though - so it was different. But context is not going to protect me. She just laughs and says "Oh lets not split hairs". And then she goes back to glaring at me.
So if I fail "soon" I will get the 'not attracted question'. And then no matter what I say I am going to get: "Don't be silly, you aren't THAT old" and "you can be honest with me - really".
If however I can perform for at least a week - then I am going to come back with "You find me ONE couple we know who has connected 14 times in 7 days and we can talk about me and my performance problems/supposed lack of attraction".
So that is my goal. To manage to avoid a ummm failure for a week.
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Originally Posted by Brennan
On second thought MEM, can you just PM me the name of your local hospital. I will see if they are part of a for profit conglomerate and therefore public. I need to diversify into healthcare a bit more. **Wink**
Reaching,
When I was in college folks would pay you to participate in their clinical drug trials. Looks like I may be forced to be an unpaid lab rat in this table turning HD/LD process.
Normally if I have a "critical systems failure" during connection I feel like a loser. Luckily that has only happened a handful of times in our 21 years of play.
In this case - I am being pushed way beyond my design tolerance so if that should happen I am just going to say "Sorry I am doing the best that I can and am more than happy to slide down and .....". As for how I will feel. Perfectly fine. It would be like you asking me to run a 5 minute mile - I EXPECT to fail.
I NEVER expected her to design a tactic this devilishly clever. To do so and then blitz me with it. Brilliant.
That said I have offered to surrender several times. I have asked for terms. I have offered unconditional surrender. She is having none of it. For now I will sweat.
Oh hey MEM. I thought you would be training PX90 style right about now. Where do I send Mrs. MEM her basket of fruit. She not only is brilliant but well yeah, BRILLIANT. If hubby would have said the same thing to me, I probably would have been very hurt. She turned it around to make it not only hilarious but a valuable lesson. Did ya stop at Walgreen's yet? Do you at least own a hottub or at least a bathtub you can fit in to soak in an Epson salt bath?
He he he
MEM Got a question - multiple choice which of the following tv shows will tonight session be described as?
a. Rin tin tin
b. Rawhide
c. Roy Rodgers and Trigger
d. Masterpiece theate
e. Cops
f. All of the above
Anybody know a recipe for a road rash poultice for ??
Words of encouragement Ride Em Cowboy. Posted via Mobile Device
Reaching,
When I was in college folks would pay you to participate in their clinical drug trials. Looks like I may be forced to be an unpaid lab rat in this table turning HD/LD process.
Normally if I have a "critical systems failure" during connection I feel like a loser. Luckily that has only happened a handful of times in our 21 years of play.
In this case - I am being pushed way beyond my design tolerance so if that should happen I am just going to say "Sorry I am doing the best that I can and am more than happy to slide down and .....". As for how I will feel. Perfectly fine. It would be like you asking me to run a 5 minute mile - I EXPECT to fail.
I NEVER expected her to design a tactic this devilishly clever. To do so and then blitz me with it. Brilliant.
That said I have offered to surrender several times. I have asked for terms. I have offered unconditional surrender. She is having none of it. For now I will sweat.
Lab rat? Well, anything towards the further discoveries and insights about male-female relationship dynamics Your "sacrifice" is noted and appreciated
The reason I am asking you this is because you are in a somewhat unique position. You know why what's happening is happening. And you know it for a fact. And you can see the humor of/in it. So you can kind of step back and look at the situation from a male LD perspective with a somewhat unbiased eye.
Re: Emotional judo - works both ways 
Well, anything towards the further discoveries and insights about male-female relationship dynamics 
