well a great day for my kids First Communion. No earth shattering supernatural events occurred when my W was in the church for more that an hour and actually recv'd communion for the first time in ages.
Anyway I just reread about half of the fitness testing thread, I think i actually read it back when i was still in shock.
I am beginnig to think she is testing me. She says she will not trust anyone ever again. As illogical as that is to me since she had the A.
But this is the third time we have had a heated argument about issues it leads up to R talk and her leaving, I say go, the more she breaks out accusations the more firmly I stand my ground. (maybe it's the wrong approach) but I do not dismiss in fact I reinforce how strong my love has always been for her and will be and so on.
Disagreement goes on she cries says leave me alone. I say I am done move out do whatever you want I don't care I will be fine.
Now after these three well maybe four disagreements just like this she ends up being more than nice to me, and agreeable. She ends up calling me with her "plans/schedule" The more I show little concern the more she talks.
So regardless of how this affects the current situation but to help me learn for the future, any future relationship, is this the testing?
She said she was going to talk to the kids about leaving next week. I told her to go ahead.
Today was her only day off between 3 on and 4 on so I won't see much of her. For the record i don't believe her. This is when I get to see how accurate my gut is for the future as well.