Originally Posted by MarriedWifeInLove
He didn't want those on Sat - he accepted them on Sun and this morning.
The scary part is - he may not feel a void - he didn't seem to this weekend - at all and I think that was the worst part because I could sense it.
There wasn't a void if you were sitting there right next to him!
What harm does it do to get out of the house by yourself when he drops this bomb on you?
Instead of sitting next to him waiting for him to accept your love???
I'm sorry if I sound harsh.
My own H has pulled similar crap on me before.
"may I please make you breakfast?"---is an AWFUL feeling.
I will NEVER allow myself to be rejected by my husband again.
That feels much better.
Don't position yourself for rejection.
He says "I don't want you"?
Say "I hope you don't mean that," give him a confident smile, and then leave the house to give him space. Posted via Mobile Device