10-10-2008, 09:31 AM
Join Date: Aug 2008
| | Re: I'm feeling the urge to cheat
just remember that there are consequences to this action. you will forever change your marriage (even if your wife never finds out) if you follow through with these thoughts. you will most certainly hurt your wife and most definitely will hurt yourself. cheating is not something that is easy to live with on either side of the coin! you may not be able to live with yourself afterwards! i'm sure in your mind your thoughts are cut & dry, black & white, but a situation like that always involves emotions no matter what you tell yourself! what is the problem in your marriage that is making you feel this way? give your wife & you a chance to address any issues before you decided to change things on your own!