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Old 05-25-2011, 04:28 PM   #16 (permalink)
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So I have a question......do you prefer 35+ rather than younger women? All the guys here are saying very positive things but if they were the norm, you wouldn't have a bunch of guys chasing younger women.
Since I'm here already... I would think somewhere between my age and 7 years younger (36).

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Having finally got over herself. That is a turn on.
I was looking for the words to explain it.

This. All those other attributes but she should have matured enough to be ... real.
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I don't get the part about no wedding ring. the ring doesn't make it a "np deal". I get attracted to women who think they are attractive and who willingly display their sexuality. A "com hither look" will catch my eye far quicker than any other attribute.
Oh, and long legs and/or pert nipples will seal the deal. LOL
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So I have a question......do you prefer 35+ rather than younger women? All the guys here are saying very positive things but if they were the norm, you wouldn't have a bunch of guys chasing younger women.
Are we talking about getting laid or a LTR? All dirty old men like me fantasize about younger women. It's natural for men to seek women who are still capable of breeding. It's hardwired in us to ensure our species survives. Harsh but true. However, I prefer to be with someone at the same stage in life. I believe a truely deep emotional connection can not exist between a 25 year old "girl" and 45+ year old man.
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I don't get the part about no wedding ring. the ring doesn't make it a "np deal".
Alright, its definitely more of a conservative train of thought that if a woman had a wedding ring on, most decent guys would admire from afar but not try to hit on her.
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Nobody wears dresses anymore. That's hot. Also, smile. Being logical is a huge turn-on for me. If you have any interest at all in geeky things, you have a specific demographic who will beat a path to your door.
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Nobody wears dresses anymore. That's hot. Also, smile. Being logical is a huge turn-on for me. If you have any interest at all in geeky things, you have a specific demographic who will beat a path to your door.
What constitutes geeky? Are we talking liking Monty Python or are we talking about a chic who thinks Linux is the best operating system in the world?
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Are we talking about getting laid or a LTR? All dirty old men like me fantasize about younger women. It's natural for men to seek women who are still capable of breeding. It's hardwired in us to ensure our species survives. Harsh but true. However, I prefer to be with someone at the same stage in life. I believe a truely deep emotional connection can not exist between a 25 year old "girl" and 45+ year old man.
A woman who is 35+ is capable of breeding so that argument is kinda out the window. If you say you like younger women because they often times have better bodies, now that I understand.
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This is somewhat of a stolen thread topic concept from southbound. What makes a 35+ woman attractive to you guys? Also, what would make you have the courage to approach that woman and strike up a conversation if you noticed there was no wedding ring? Physical and personality traits are acceptable answers on this one. There truly are no wrong answers.

However, try to refrain from the whole She needs to look like Carrie Underwood, Scarlett Johansson, Jessica Biel or Megan Fox, because they are SOOOO not even close to 35 years old. Im certain you guys would hate to have the ladies play the whole He needs to look like Matthew McConaughey, comparison card.

Have at it guys!
But......I DO look like Matthew McConaughey.
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Pretty girls are pretty girls. I want a full on ferocious woman.
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When a woman still looks hot with messed up hair after waking up....that's hot!
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Alright, it’s definitely more of a conservative train of thought that if a woman had a wedding ring on, most decent guys would admire from afar but not try to hit on her.
OK, I'm not a "decent guy". Now that we've established that, Are you busy this weekend?

Women who aren't shopping, aren't even looking at the goods. If a woman flirts with me, she's open for suggestions, regardless of whether she's wearing a ring or not. Once we've put that issue aside, I look for a woman who feels and acts attractive. I'm not interested in most under 30 women because they haven't learned to appreciate themselves as "objects of desire" other than to a level of "tits and ass".

I find women attractive who think and act sensually, Women who regard themselves as desirable, women who think of theselves as more than mere receptors of men's lust.

A women whose patina of fire lies just below the surface, simply waiting for a man who recognizes her inner flame, is a woman who draws my gaze. A fire unlit is far more engaging than a flame ready to be snuffed.

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Old 05-25-2011, 05:41 PM   #29 (permalink)
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This is just like that what makes a 40yr old guy hot.......there isn't anything magic here either.

The same things that make a 20yr old HOT you just realize there is a little age package.
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Are we talking about getting laid or a LTR? All dirty old men like me fantasize about younger women. It's natural for men to seek women who are still capable of breeding. It's hardwired in us to ensure our species survives. Harsh but true. However, I prefer to be with someone at the same stage in life. I believe a truely deep emotional connection can not exist between a 25 year old "girl" and 45+ year old man.
It's natural to fantasize about woman who are capable of breeding? Is that the way you justify it or something?

I could care less if you can have kids or never have kids if you are hot you are hot!! 20,25,30,35,40 IDC!!!

Halle Berry is freaking hot what is she 42?

Capable of breeding haaa that's some true psychobabble right there!!
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