This is somewhat of a stolen thread topic concept from southbound. What makes a 35+ woman attractive to you guys? Also, what would make you have the courage to approach that woman and strike up a conversation if you noticed there was no wedding ring? Physical and personality traits are acceptable answers on this one. There truly are no wrong answers.
However, try to refrain from the whole “She needs to look like Carrie Underwood, Scarlett Johansson, Jessica Biel or Megan Fox,” because they are SOOOO not even close to 35 years old. I’m certain you guys would hate to have the ladies play the whole “He needs to look like Matthew McConaughey,” comparison card.
Looks like Sophia Vergara from Modern Family! j/k (sort of - I do like latin women and was lucky enough to marry one!).
well dressed, big laugh, sense of humor, cute smile, great hair, positive/fun attitude, good poise/posture, confidence, well educated, good taste in beer...and good old fashioned T&A doesn't hurt either!
There was a girl in college I had this crazy crush on, and she dipped. Normally this wouldn't be attractive, but because of all the above traits it made her that much sexier!
C'mon now. They don't even start looking really attractive until 35.
Well it's official, I love you Halien. Out with the old guard, in with the new. Under his regime, any woman over 26 was past her shelf life. Any woman over 40 just needs to pick out her coffin already and join a convent.
There are a LOT of beautiful women between 35-45 YO. The first thing that catches my eye is a great smile! Besides that a fun attitude, confidence, and doesn't have to have a perfect body but a woman that takes care of herself. An elegant look is more attractive than super casual I'd say. Heels not flip flops.
It's different for everyone and can change over the years. By the time you're 35 you realize that some traits are not so great over the long haul but may be good for other reasons . I'm from SoCal, 46 and spent a little time around hippies and bikers when growing up which has affected my taste in women. Before I was married I would approach women with the following traits:
Natural looking with modest make-up.
Healthy alabaster skin. (my fixation)
Feminine with girlie curves but no rolls.
Smells nice but not overpowering.
Good attitude with a sense of humor about life.
Not a princess with healthy levels of humility
In the end I think it comes down to a certain comfort level for each person. Everyones background is different so the best bet is to be yourself and attract the guy who is comfortable with who you are. However if you are not "approachable" then you could be waiting for a long time.
Things I find incredibly attractive about my 42 year old GF...
Intelligent. She has a degree, is well informed about many different topics
Self sufficient. Runs a business with a partner
Kind and caring. She's willing to give of herself, teaching adult education and literacy as a volunteer
Sensual. Loves to touch and be touched. Loves to be teased for hours or sometimes even days
Beautiful. My first thought when someone asked me to describe her was a 42 year old model. Blonde, blue eyes, just stunning!
Sexy. Even though she thinks she might have a few extra pounds, she still wants to wear lingerie or a bikini because she knows I like seeing her in them
Classy. Even on her worst days, she never looks like an escapee from Walmart. She doesn't over-dress, but she does like to look her best.
Sexual. She has fantasies and an imagination that blows my mind. And I haven't even thought of entertaining myself for months. I don't have the energy for it!
So I have a question......do you prefer 35+ rather than younger women? All the guys here are saying very positive things but if they were the norm, you wouldn't have a bunch of guys chasing younger women.