Tonight DH and I are going out on a date. I suck at romantic guestures. He is into woodworking. So one time I bought him a chocolate tool set. He looked at me like I was a dork. Given I have very limited time (because I did not even think of it until now), what can I do before dinner/at dinner / after dinner. This is aside from or in addition to the obvious bj I know you are all going to suggest. Cuz you know I really can't do that at dinner.
Tonight DH and I are going out on a date. I suck at romantic guestures. He is into woodworking. So one time I bought him a chocolate tool set. He looked at me like I was a dork. Given I have very limited time (because I did not even think of it until now), what can I do before dinner/at dinner / after dinner. This is aside from or in addition to the obvious bj I know you are all going to suggest. Cuz you know I really can't do that at dinner.
Just crawl under the table and pull the table cloth down and suprise him!!!!!!!!!!!!
LOL that would really be something imagine if you were at the table next to someone who did that. LOL
Listen most men do not like romantic gestures they like lustfull gestures.
when my wife dose romantic gestures for me I thing thats not what I like thats what YOU like.Men and women are wired differently.
if I was taking my wife out and I did a lustfull gesture she would look at me like a dork because she would be expecting a romantic gesture.
you got to push his buttons if you want him to push your buttons.
I think that is the biggest problem with relationships. we do for our spouce what we would like done to us instead of doing what you think he would actually want.
have a great time tonight.
p.s. a new wood working tool would be nice and you don't have to give it to him tonight suprise him some other time
Just crawl under the table and pull the table cloth down and suprise him!!!!!!!!!!!!
LOL that would really be something imagine if you were at the table next to someone who did that. LOL
Listen most men do not like romantic gestures they like lustfull gestures.
when my wife dose romantic gestures for me I thing thats not what I like thats what YOU like.Men and women are wired differently.
if I was taking my wife out and I did a lustfull gesture she would look at me like a dork because she would be expecting a romantic gesture.
you got to push his buttons if you want him to push your buttons.
I think that is the biggest problem with relationships. we do for our spouce what we would like done to us instead of doing what you think he would actually want.
have a great time tonight.
p.s. a new wood working tool would be nice and you don't have to give it to him tonight suprise him some other time
My husband DOES like loving gestures. And there is no doubt that pieces and parts can be touched under the table cloth. But I was thinking of something a little more classy.
Sit next to him instead of across from him. Hold hands during dinner, give kisses, whisper that you love him and want him.
As for gifts, if you don't have the time to go out and get something then I think wearing something you know he likes is good. Or if you are good with words, maybe write him a short love note. I don't really know. The things that have made me feel good are when my wife just lets me know how much she loves and appreciates me.
Tonight DH and I are going out on a date. I suck at romantic guestures. He is into woodworking. So one time I bought him a chocolate tool set. He looked at me like I was a dork. Given I have very limited time (because I did not even think of it until now), what can I do before dinner/at dinner / after dinner. This is aside from or in addition to the obvious bj I know you are all going to suggest. Cuz you know I really can't do that at dinner.
Too late now, but my all time favorite is when I go to the restroom, and I get back she has the smile on her face, looks at my plate, and says, "Just so you know... One item on your plate was dipped in the special sauce. Enjoy!" She has the smirk on her face while I eat every bite.
romantic gesture 
