How would you rate these characteristics?
Wanted to get some men's perspectives on something me and my H did in MC.
We had an assignment of sorts, which involved my H picking three characteristics from a list, that described me and that he appreciated about me.
The three he picked, were, "caring," "loving" and "beautiful."
Now, we are at MC because he had a recent EA, and we're working through things. I have mentioned previously that my self-esteem took a hit in terms of how I feel about how attractive I am: I feel attractive in myself, but worry how he sees me, if he found this OW more attractive, how I compare I guess.
As guys, how would you rate these? The list consisted of 70 or so characteristics, none were really negative, some would only apply to a specific gender (ie there was "handsome" as well as "beautiful"), some were generic (ie "sexy", "thoughtful".) I guess I'm looking for some generic insight into how he sees me. Obviously no one here knows him but as guys, what would you say? Would you describe your wife like this, say?