I thought I'd comment too.
I think many of these things are a turn on for men, because they are things that are feminine.
I suppose what kind of girl you are, or are into, as well.
I am into girly girls.
Not like 100% house slave mall shopping, clothing obsessed cliche girls, but I love the sexy flaunting look
more than the 'too busy to care' look.
Maybe this is selfish, but I think the key is just to find the right girl. Don't try to turn one into what you want.
Attraction is very physical for me. Not that it's all that matters, but let's face it, looks are big for anyone.
Pantyhose, I feel a few ways about them. I think it's hard to deny that they look classier than bare legs a lot of times.
When I see a girl wear them, I feel like she has her life together. I know that sounds ridiculous, but it just seems like
something you wouldn't buy or care about, if you were living paycheque to paycheque going bar hopping looking for guys.
Pantyhose also can make it a lot easier for some heels to last all day. If you take your girl somewhere all day, heels can
be an issue sometimes, and pantyhose can make a huge difference. Pantyhose can really save her feet from getting blisters
and stuff. It depends what heels though. I still see quite a bit of girls in pantyhose. I don't think they are less popular because
they are ugly, I think it's simply that people are more budget minded and practical these days. You go to the bar, and barely any
girls are dressed to flaunt, but they seem to be easier than ever to go off and have fun with. Also girls that wear pantyhose seem
to generally be pretty thoughtful of their appearance.
Heels, I think are just the most girly item there is. Now it depends on the person, but generally, if your like me, and I think a
lot of others are like this, it's kinda that most girls feet look a lot better than mens lol. For them to show them off a bit, is
pretty feminine. A lot of the girls shoes are pretty sexy, with straps around the ankle, sort of making it a bit like a bondage look.
Since not every girl wears heels, I like a girl that does, she stands out to me. It tells me that she is willing to be uncomfortable
sometimes, to look attractive. Since I like attractive girls, that try to look pretty, it's important to me that I know these things, as
I will do many things I hate in life, like work hard to provide for her, etc. It's all sort of a trade off, when you do things for eachother, and to make
eachother happy. Thats what I think.
For me, I just love a girl thats into heels, girly stuff, and feeling confident.
The ones that guys stare at, despite having a girl at home thats in peak shape working out all the time, but wears jeans and flip flops.
The real key though, is finding someone thats going to 'do it' for you, that goes both ways.
I know what I find attractive, some would say it's shallow, but it would be worse to pretend to be with someone, then cheat on them later
because of feelings for things your not getting out of the relationship.
If you get the wrong girl, and your begging her to do things she doesn't really want, it won't work, and you'll end up cheating, or leaving.
Just like how people get into all kinds of crazy sex fetishes, find the right girl, don't try to turn one into what you want.
I love confident girls, and I find that heels can make them feel super confident, along with other girly looking stuff.
Looks are a major thing for girls. Even if your a super rich successful girl, you still get judged hard by other girls.
How many times do guys leave good successful wives for attractive waitresses.
That does suck, and it's not really fair. Guys do not have to deal with that as much.
I'm not saying this is for everyone, or a constant issue, but girls do get judged by looks a great deal, by men and women.
Thats why I think a girl that has that physical confidence is going to be happier overall.