Hey guys, I've been married for about 6 years I'm 31 years old and two weeks ago my wife came home saying she wanted to seperate for a while to find "ourselves". She's currently in medical school and started about 6 months ago. I think that played a huge factor in where we are now. She says she doesn't know who she is right now or what she wants. But knows that the way things have been going with our marriage is taking a huge toll on her. We both haven't been very happy for a couple years sort of up and down with our marriage. I want to get help and take small steps to try and fix this but she isn't ready yet. I'm really struggling to keep my daily routine day after day without her. I guess I'm just looking for other guys out there who are going through something similar or have gone through this. And no there isn't any cheating going or anything else major like that so it's just a case of us letting our marriage get into this negative hole and the loss of communication and similar interests.
To make things even harder we are both in a wedding together for some good friends of ours in about 4 weeks. We've agreed that we not my still need to honor our commitment to our friends and be in the wedding for them. But it's going to be soooo hard. Any tips, advice or words of encouragement would be greatly appreciated.
To make things even harder we are both in a wedding together for some good friends of ours in about 4 weeks. We've agreed that we not my still need to honor our commitment to our friends and be in the wedding for them. But it's going to be soooo hard. Any tips, advice or words of encouragement would be greatly appreciated.