Is there a reason why sometimes a guy would prefer oral from intercourse? Why is there such a huge demand for oral more? Just curious? My husband b confusing me n I jus wonder what others think Posted via Mobile Device
Some of it can be personal preference. Personally, I would much rather have intercourse over oral. But to each his own. Also, oral can be a way of not having to worry about the other partner - not necessarily being selfish but you can enjoy your ride at the time and not worry about the other. It can also be an act of selfishness. It could also indicate an A of some kind. Oral is somewhat less of a commitment and make the WS not feel as bad. I'm not suggesting that but just covering bases. It can also be a phase - I'm not sure about others but I will admit to going through periods where a certain act stays in your head, you think about it a lot, fantasize about it, and ultimately want it. And if it is something your partner is really good at....well nuf said.
don't get me wrong oral is fantastic, giving and recieving, but it is not the closest two people can get.
I would be sad if my fiance thought oral was as good as sex, or was as close as a connection as actual sex.
I know the pornification of everything has taught us that missionary is boring. I think that's just sad really and people are missing out on something so wonderful if they cannot just enjoy the sweet simple things.
It's really hard to say how much it means when the person you love connects and unifies with you in this way.
Hope that helps. You also have to remember it's one of the few positions/acts that we are on the receiving end and can relax quite a bit. It's just our women taking care us with little physical pleasure for themselves. Preferred over sex is probably not the word I'd use. To me it's a totally different experience. In this particular act you're worry free without concern of taking care of your woman. Done right it can be mind blowing. My wife went through a phase of insecurity about the act like Syrum. Felt it wasn't really an act where a connection can be made and maybe I was just looking to get off. Thank God we got past that with communication.
Sex is one thing, one great awesome thing, but it is easy (for example in the missionary position) for the man to do all the work and for the woman to zone out. Or vice versa.
When you have someone performing oral on you it is incredibly intimate, regardless of whether it's the man or woman. Your most vulnerable, sensuous bits are inside the mouth of your lover, and that mouth has teeth! It takes a certain level of trust to allow that to happen. And to the giver, it takes a level of desire and love to take that part of your lover into your mouth. Traditional intercourse, the penis and vagina is several feet removed from your face, where the majority of stimulus is recorded (vision and smell tend to dominate sensory input). When you are going down on your lover, the stimulus is put right in your face, with the added sensation of taste... I'm also tall so in the missionary position I'm generally looking at a pillow since my wife is slid under me. Oral, I get to view most of her body. I enjoy that visual stimulation I normally don't get in traditional positions...
And there's certain things a tongue can do that neither vaginas or penises can accomplish.
Hope that helps. You also have to remember it's one of the few positions/acts that we are on the receiving end and can relax quite a bit. It's just our women taking care us with little physical pleasure for themselves. Preferred over sex is probably not the word I'd use. To me it's a totally different experience. In this particular act you're worry free without concern of taking care of your woman. Done right it can be mind blowing.
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Sometimes, it's just really nice to lay back and not have to think/focus on anything but my own enjoyment. There's also a certain level of (for lack of a better word) dominance when my wife is performing oral on me and I'm just laying back and watching.
Getting sucked off is simply about your partner's desire to please you. It's truly about the sex - and the fact that the one performing the act is truly "into" you.
What greater compliment could you get?
I've long felt that I'd be more distraught finding out my spouse blew another man than if she banged him.
Of course, I'd be devastated either way. Yet, the idea that she would be present for another man and desire to give to him what she gives to me in those moments... with basically nothing in it for her except knowing she rocked my world and the need for a drink of soda or beer afterward?
i guess it just depends on the person....i can see thinking, shes on her knees, and the guys is goin to town....
THAT NEVER HAPPENS IN OUR MARRIAGE
we are close, and touching, out legs are all inter-twined and hes is rubbing on me and taking off me shirt, and then off come our pants, our arms are all over one another, he takes my hair down..
plus, we laugh about things, and talk, we get silly..ok i get the giggles for no reason...
for us it has nothing to do with porn, husband has always said, cheating is bad no matter what you do..."just because some random chick wanted to cheat with him, oral is just as bad as straight sex in my eyes".
so if he wants oral to be a close bond, and to him it means something special that only we do, the way we do...then im willing to accept that we have different views on intimacy is, as long as we are doing things together...
Men are visual, at least I am. It's fun to see. Men like variety. It's different from the norm. Men don't like limits, at least i don't. it's virtually limitless. Men like foreplay too, at least I do. What can be better foreplay for us than a good BJ. I hope he's putting his mouth on you too. Oral rocks ;-0
don't get me wrong oral is fantastic, giving and recieving, but it is not the closest two people can get.
I would be sad if my fiance thought oral was as good as sex, or was as close as a connection as actual sex.
I know the pornification of everything has taught us that missionary is boring. I think that's just sad really and people are missing out on something so wonderful if they cannot just enjoy the sweet simple things.
It's really hard to say how much it means when the person you love connects and unifies with you in this way.
You are becoming very tiresome. Everything is not about porn. I thought missionary was boring way before I was exposed to any porn. Sometimes the answer is that is that certain sex acts or positions just feel better to a MAN then missionary. By the way I understand the there are large percentage of women that can only orgasm when on top. Is that because of porn too???
Is there a reason why sometimes a guy would prefer oral from intercourse? Why is there such a huge demand for oral more? Just curious? My husband b confusing me n I jus wonder what others think Posted via Mobile Device
Judging from your syntax/grammar I would guess that you are, shall we say, under 30? So as I understand it, the younger generation goes in for oral far more. In many cases they don't consider it sex, don't consider it cheating, etc. It is often their first (and many subsequent times) sexual experience. First experiences can have a profound effect on the rest of our lives.
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