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Old 09-04-2011, 08:46 PM   #1 (permalink)
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So to the point, what do guys think of having their balls touched? It's a little silly and embarrassing but it's important cause some guys really like it. I haven't been with many guys that have really liked them played with or at least never said anything about it. It would mostly be when giving a bj. What do guys want girls to do with their balls? What really feels good and what are the best techniques? I pretty much don't touch their balls unless the guys says it's ok and he likes it.
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Old 09-04-2011, 08:50 PM   #2 (permalink)
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A nice fondle while getting a BJ is always welcome. No squeeze please.
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Old 09-04-2011, 08:51 PM   #3 (permalink)
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My husband likes it. Preferably to be touched with my mouth.
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Old 09-04-2011, 08:59 PM   #4 (permalink)
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If I was answering this question coming from my wife;
Feel free to touch, fondle, gently pull, lick, suck, kiss the "boys" at any time...
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Old 09-05-2011, 05:37 AM   #5 (permalink)
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i love it when they are just softly touched..just barley touching the skin..send tingles to the head of my penis to my toes
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So to the point, what do guys think of having their balls touched? It's a little silly and embarrassing but it's important cause some guys really like it. I haven't been with many guys that have really liked them played with or at least never said anything about it. It would mostly be when giving a bj. What do guys want girls to do with their balls? What really feels good and what are the best techniques? I pretty much don't touch their balls unless the guys says it's ok and he likes it.
I would love to have them touched but in 20 years of marriage I couldn't tell you what it feels like... I say touch and feel just no squeezing. Licking would be great too! I think.
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If I was answering this question coming from my wife;
Feel free to touch, fondle, gently pull, lick, suck, kiss the "boys" at any time...
this and licking and sucking on the perenium (sp?) and rubbing that area as well with the heel of your hand.
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Old 09-05-2011, 09:21 AM   #8 (permalink)
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I would say touch away. If he doesn't like it, he can guide your hand or head away. Personally, it doesn't do too much for me.

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Old 09-05-2011, 09:57 AM   #9 (permalink)
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I say just communicate with your partner - either verbally by asking him outright, or just gently trying things and watching his reaction.

Every man may like something different - and may like different things at different times.
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My husband doesn't like to be touched there at all; it is too sensitive for him. I thought it seemed sexy too, but we stay with penis only.
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Old 09-05-2011, 10:18 AM   #11 (permalink)
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Feel free to touch, fondle, gently pull, lick, suck, kiss the "boys" at any time...
My husband would say exactly the same, even after he got some, he would still welcome it. Never would be a pushing away at any time -ever.
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Old 09-05-2011, 05:06 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Touching and licking is good for me. When me and the wife have naked movie night we touch each other and I love it when she gently scrapes across them with her fingernails. During BJ's I like her to handle them a little more roughly. She did suck on one of them one time while giving head and used too much pressure, that hurt like hell.
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Pop one or both in your mouth.
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my husband loves his balls played with, softly tho. No squeazes.
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I like when my wife massages them while she's on top or giving me a handjob.
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