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Old 10-28-2011, 04:21 PM   #211 (permalink)
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Meh. I think it's 50/50 she is already cheating or thinking very strongly about it. Sending you away (for "space") is a huge red flag, and her ambivalence just suggests second thoughts which are also consistent with cheaters. Here's a newsflash: cheaters lie. So you might want to get some actual data to back up your strong feeling that she isn't cheating. After all, if she's faithful, what does it hurt for you to have some data to say, "I told you so. She's not cheating." Or, you can just take it as an attack by me on her character or yours, and go about your way. Whatever works. I'll be back in 6 pages when you've figured out she's cheating and want advice then.

Man this sucks. You guys knew what you were talking about. I found out that she's been cheating on me with some guy at she meet through work. His name is Phil. WTF? She cheated on me with a guy named Phil. Never say this coming. Put my life on the line and this is what I get? Angry to the point that I might, probably shouldn't say. Thinking about moving across the country.
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Old 10-28-2011, 04:27 PM   #212 (permalink)
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Man this sucks. You guys knew what you were talking about. I found out that she's been cheating on me with some guy at she meet through work. His name is Phil. WTF? She cheated on me with a guy named Phil. Never say this coming. Put my life on the line and this is what I get? Angry to the point that I might, probably shouldn't say. Thinking about moving across the country.
Wow...I am so, so sorry to hear this.
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Old 10-28-2011, 05:15 PM   #213 (permalink)
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Listen, you sound like an awesome guy who's done little wrong here. Don't beat yourself up about how this has all panned out. You deserve better and eventually you'll get it. I am sad it's turned out the way it has.
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Old 10-28-2011, 05:20 PM   #214 (permalink)
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Cripes, I'm really sorry.

You'll find plenty of support on the boards should you choose.

Take care of yourself. Seriously.
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Old 11-04-2011, 03:40 PM   #215 (permalink)
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His name is Phil Connors he's a meteorologist from Pittsburgh. What an *******!
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His name is Phil Connors he's a meteorologist from Pittsburgh. What an *******!
Bill Murray's character in the movie "Groundhog Day"?
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His name is Phil Connors he's a meteorologist from Pittsburgh. What an *******!
So sorry for what you are going through!!
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Old 11-05-2011, 12:30 PM   #218 (permalink)
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His name is Phil Connors he's a meteorologist from Pittsburgh. What an *******!
Sorry we were tough on you.

Also sorry about the pain you're experiencing.

But, better to be awake and able to deal with it.
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Old 11-05-2011, 02:18 PM   #219 (permalink)
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Bill Murray's character in the movie "Groundhog Day"?
Sounds like a wind up.
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Sounds like a wind up.
Sometimes one gets the feeling they're being trolled/played.

But, a supportive post is never really all that difficult.
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